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Old 10-03-2007, 10:41 AM   #26
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the kicker is u can download this software for free off the net ...it will log every keystroke,every web page visited and if using a web cam will take a picture every few seconds ...then it send this info to the "spys" email for review ....

guess Big Brother is here ..........



I'm going to look into that and use it on the house computer.........I could keep up with what my kids are saying and where they're going.I don't worry so much about my husband finding out,we have separate laptops.
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Old 10-03-2007, 10:49 AM   #27
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Give me a break.
1 - ok if your spouse finds you here. Wouldn't it be better here than the local bar.
2 - You people worry to much. Relax life is a blast and when you have to start watching to see who's behind you? You need a new life anyway.
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Old 10-03-2007, 10:51 AM   #28
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Keep it all out in the open I say. My wife and I are pretty damned honest with each other - its the only way in the end - challenging at times, but so worth it.
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Old 10-03-2007, 11:16 AM   #29
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Give me a break.
1 - ok if your spouse finds you here. Wouldn't it be better here than the local bar.
2 - You people worry to much. Relax life is a blast and when you have to start watching to see who's behind you? You need a new life anyway.
You think it is paranoia but it's not. There have been some serious issues with spouses finding out about this site. We are all like family here and if something were to happen to one of us, of course we would be greatly concerned. The is the world wide net........would I want someone from my job finding me here and realizing it was me? Ummm.....no! I am a manager and it would not look good for me. Also, people come here for a release and to relate to others who are having similar issues. Imagine your wife showing up here and reading a post about how she lacks in the bedroom.....not that it would happen, but think about the reprocussions. Penny has seen her share of bad things happen here and she feels the need to warn others of the possible consequences. I admire her for that and also for the fact that she states that it will be on your head and not hers.
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Old 10-03-2007, 11:30 AM   #30
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That is the way you have to think before you post here.
That is why I changed (thanks Penny) my username. There is a option for the webmaster to keep search engines from referencing your site robot.txt http://www.robotstxt.org/wc/norobots.html



And if my spouse found me on this site, while I am not offering it up freely, oh well. Just a place for me to be free (sorta).



Itís the rest of the world I donít want to find me, except you guysÖ.

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Old 10-03-2007, 03:36 PM   #31
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Give me a break.
1 - ok if your spouse finds you here. Wouldn't it be better here than the local bar.
2 - You people worry to much. Relax life is a blast and when you have to start watching to see who's behind you? You need a new life anyway.
Wow, now that might be interesting.... some people think of flirting as cheating... would it be ok if your spouse caught you in an act that they considered cheating? I don't know about you but some people have a problem with just finding porn on their spouses computer!

I happen to find your comment about worrying too much and needing a new life to be little condescending.... but whatever works for you...
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Old 10-03-2007, 03:48 PM   #32
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She may someday find I've been here. Big deal.
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Old 10-03-2007, 04:11 PM   #33
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Not many Brits on here so far, mind you he could always pretend that he is American, he spends half his time there!! I kinda think i'd know mind... but still i am always diligent!
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Old 10-03-2007, 05:22 PM   #34
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If I did that then no one would find the site. Its out there on the search engines and Google loves this place. I find pages from this site all the time, even on searches with nothing to do with flirting. The song lyrics thread pops up all the time


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That is why I changed (thanks Penny) my username. There is a option for the webmaster to keep search engines from referencing your site robot.txt http://www.robotstxt.org/wc/norobots.html



And if my spouse found me on this site, while I am not offering it up freely, oh well. Just a place for me to be free (sorta).



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Old 10-03-2007, 06:36 PM   #35
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If I did that then no one would find the site. Its out there on the search engines and Google loves this place. I find pages from this site all the time, even on searches with nothing to do with flirting. The song lyrics thread pops up all the time
Suggestion: Is it necessary to keep ALL the posts available? If we had fewer posts on the site, would that decrease the risk of Google/Yahoo hits? If I'm way off-base, pls let me know. But I'm wondering if we only kept the last whatevernumber of posts for the bigger threads, would that decrease the risk? Does anyone search that far back?
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Old 10-03-2007, 06:58 PM   #36
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Fear you? Fear you?

The only thing I fear, dear, is that we won't get to spend the weekend in my cabin, snowed in with nothing but the crackling fire to keep us company ...... again.
Ah ha!!! So that's who you were with while I waited at the bus station...
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Old 10-03-2007, 08:18 PM   #37
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The last time you asked me that question, you REALLY didn't like my answer!
Ok, ok! I'll stop for a six pack!!
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Old 10-03-2007, 08:27 PM   #38
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I seriously doubt my hubby would find this site....or perhaps he has already.....unless he says something, I cant sit and worry about it and I doubt he will until i do because he is the one with the most to lose.....
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I'm going to look into that and use it on the house computer.........I could keep up with what my kids are saying and where they're going.I don't worry so much about my husband finding out,we have separate laptops.
That's why I'm here... My laptop doesn't get enough use.
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Old 10-04-2007, 01:05 AM   #40
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good thing bud ...cause if u use Internet Explorer and just delete history and your cookies ,they are still in a folder on your hard drive ,its a bug they still havent fixed ...
and how do you clear THAT out?
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Old 10-04-2007, 02:48 AM   #41
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Dido..........thanks Penny
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Old 10-04-2007, 04:34 PM   #42
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Good wake up call, maybe she'll start thinking before she runs her mouth?
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Suggestion: Is it necessary to keep ALL the posts available? If we had fewer posts on the site, would that decrease the risk of Google/Yahoo hits? If I'm way off-base, pls let me know. But I'm wondering if we only kept the last whatevernumber of posts for the bigger threads, would that decrease the risk? Does anyone search that far back?
Without Google and Yahoo hits, no one would find the site!
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Personally, if you are anywhere on the web...a good cyber sleuth could find you no matter what....and if ur not prepared to deal with the consequences then dont commit the crime.....
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Thanks for the heads up, Penny. Even though my wife and I do some dancing together...and have a good relationship (sex, too)..we give each other 'space', it works out better that way..... I require it.....
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Truly.... if anyone is really worried about their spouse finding you here, you should be prepared to pay the piper, if you feel they will be upset, or you should avoid it altogether. To ask Penny to alter the way the site is run for the sake of not getting caught is wrong. the posts are what makes the site. Limiting or deleting them is not the way to go, IMO. If anyone is still worried, then go somewhere else that is "more protected" for you.
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Old 10-05-2007, 06:58 AM   #47
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I easily found out my wife having an affair by her carelessly-left-around emails, and subsequently had no problem monitoring her computer activity for a while. I can't be bothered doing that any more, and I'm not really worried about her finding out about this site (not that I've really done anything yet). Maybe we each need our 'time apart' and this is only txt after all (unless you live in Sydney )

Anyway she will never break my security, and I'm not giving that much away.
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Truly.... if anyone is really worried about their spouse finding you here, you should be prepared to pay the piper, if you feel they will be upset, or you should avoid it altogether. To ask Penny to alter the way the site is run for the sake of not getting caught is wrong. the posts are what makes the site. Limiting or deleting them is not the way to go, IMO. If anyone is still worried, then go somewhere else that is "more protected" for you.
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One thing you should do is NOT use the same nick name you use everywhere else. Try searching for the nick name you use here on Google and see what comes up. Dont freak when you see and NOOOOO I cant change what comes up
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Old 10-05-2007, 05:48 PM   #50
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