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Old 05-10-2008, 12:05 AM   #76
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Would you like to be a "Jack of All Trades, but Master of None" or revered for One talent but unable to perform even mediocre tasks?
I am the latter, so would like to know what it's like to be the former.

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I am the latter, so would like to know what it's like to be the former.

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All off at once, why prolong the pain?!! (well unless it's enjoyable pain!!)
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Old 05-30-2008, 08:12 AM   #79
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Would you rather pursue what you believe in your heart will make you happy but put your children's happiness at risk, or would you rather stay in a situation that you think will give your children the best chance at happiness and you the least chance?
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Would you rather pursue what you believe in your heart will make you happy but put your children's happiness at risk, or would you rather stay in a situation that you think will give your children the best chance at happiness and you the least chance?
I did the latter.... and I am glad I did. I thought about making myself happy for so many years and I often wished I had done it then... but I didn't have happiness staring me in the face either. And in my case, while I wasn't happy I WAS content. I was well taken care of and comfortable.

I am finally on the road to find what I am searching for...... I think I will find it and I am still young enough to enjoy it when I do find it....

But I don't believe that is the right path for everyone either. Sometimes the misery we put ourselves through isn't always the best option. And I do believe kids do bounce back quickly. I think only you, the parent, knows your kids well enough to judge how they will react.
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Would you rather pursue what you believe in your heart will make you happy but put your children's happiness at risk, or would you rather stay in a situation that you think will give your children the best chance at happiness and you the least chance?
The latter because seeing my children happy, makes me very happy.
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Old 05-30-2008, 01:05 PM   #82
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Old 05-30-2008, 02:11 PM   #83
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Would you rather pursue what you believe in your heart will make you happy but put your children's happiness at risk, or would you rather stay in a situation that you think will give your children the best chance at happiness and you the least chance?
Good question, Fargo. I've been wondering about it myself quite a bit too. I can't help but wonder if I'm not screwing with my children's heads just as much though just going through the motions in a loveless marriage. I can't help but wonder sometimes if they wouldn't be better off in the long run seeing people together who are truly in love or at least looking for it. It's a tough question.
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Old 05-30-2008, 02:14 PM   #84
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Would you rather pursue what you believe in your heart will make you happy but put your children's happiness at risk, or would you rather stay in a situation that you think will give your children the best chance at happiness and you the least chance?
Fargo, the only real answer I can come up with is that if you are not happy, you will not make anyone happy, including your children. Whatever the decision, just stick by them in the tough times as well as the good. They will love you and respect you in the long run. Best of luck friend!
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Old 05-30-2008, 07:52 PM   #85
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Would you rather pursue what you believe in your heart will make you happy but put your children's happiness at risk, or would you rather stay in a situation that you think will give your children the best chance at happiness and you the least chance?
Two very difficult sides of the coin here...I'm still debating on this one but someone once told me that if you stay in an unhappy marriage for the sake of your children, you really aren't doing them any favors. Children will be happier and better adjusted if they see that their parents are HAPPY. If they see a good example of what a loving, healthy relationship is, they themselves will seek that in their own future. If they see their parents gloomy and just treading through life with their heads down, that is where they will end up as well. Children know what's going on with us. They pick up on our vibes very easily.

Now with that said, I laugh because here I am, walking through life with my head down, refusing to face the harsh reality because I don't want to hurt my daughter. Go figure.
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Old 05-30-2008, 07:56 PM   #86
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Would you rather go fishing or swim naked in the lake???
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Definitely depends on the company, JB!

If with my fishing buddies, I definitely would NOT want to see them naked or be naked with them anywhere, much less in the lake.

With the right company, though, nothing could be more magical than swimming naked with the moonlight dancing across the lake waves and our bodies, as the lake water tries to cool down the rising heat that the anticipation of what is to come fires up within our bodies. mmmm!!!

Option #2, please!
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Oh, definitely swim naked in a lake!!!!! I have NEVER been skinny dipping. I know, I know....I am missing out!!
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Would you rather have a threesome with your spouse and one of your spouse's friends or a threesome with your spouse and one of your friends?
(sorry, no option C: "no spouse and two friends")
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Would you rather play on a four-wheeler or a Jet Ski?
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Would you rather never have to sleep (or get sleepy) or would you rather be able to always get as much sleep as you need?
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Would you rather never have to sleep (or get sleepy) or would you rather be able to always get as much sleep as you need?
Never sleep if I wouldn't lose my mind.

Would you rather play on a four-wheeler or a Jet Ski?

Jet Ski

Would you rather climb a mountain or go scuba diving?
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Climb a mountain.

Would you rather go see a country singer, a classic rock singer, a hip hop singer or an alt country singer (lol, had to put the last one in for me)?
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Climb a mountain.

Would you rather go see a country singer, a classic rock singer, a hip hop singer or an alt country singer (lol, had to put the last one in for me)?
LOL well if I wanted to get your attention I'd say alt country singer but really I'd rather see a classic rock singer (it's my age, lol)

Would you rather a blonde, brunette or redhead?
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hmmm let's see.... four wheeler... then the jet ski...
get as much sleep as I need...
climb a mountain...
classic rock singer... although I am liking some folk music... like Nickel Creek..
ummmm..... I am not really blonde or brunette.. and sorry but I have no desire to be a red head... sooooo I am going to say my mousy brown....

Would you rather be loved by many or loved by just a few.... (can be friends too)
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I would definitely prefered to be loved by a few. I like my friends close, and spend a lot of time with a select few, rather than being kind of close to a bunch of people.

Would you rather have loved and lost, or never loved at all?
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Old 06-04-2008, 11:27 AM   #98
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would you rather meet someone on this site, or relish the anonymity?
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I would rather meet someone on the site. The suspense would kill me once I got to know somone well. I like the anonymity as well, but not as much.

Would you rather do it in a public park, or your parent's bedroom?
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