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Old 08-29-2009, 08:07 PM   #26
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Nav, we haven't even gotten into the capabilities of windows parental controls...

Anyway.. the safest option is to have your own laptop ... or a netbook if all you want to do is simple web surfing / email type stuff
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Old 08-29-2009, 08:48 PM   #27
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Nav, we haven't even gotten into the capabilities of windows parental controls...

Anyway.. the safest option is to have your own laptop ... or a netbook if all you want to do is simple web surfing / email type stuff
That's why I got her a laptop so she would not need mine anymore...
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Old 08-29-2009, 09:20 PM   #28
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All good things OGP.

One thing I do that you did not mention is once I am finished I do a quick delete of the browsing history. I know if you search you can still find the history, however, why make it easy. Plus I also got busted once when he looked in the history, oops.

Excellent advice. I just started doing this because I got busted as well.

I also do all the ideas OGP stated.
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Old 08-30-2009, 02:41 PM   #29
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mine does not use my laptop,and is not really computer savvy, so I don't worry about him finding out I come here. he would be hurt if he knew
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Old 08-30-2009, 03:15 PM   #30
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my office is private, and expected to stay that way. also my computer is password protected, plus my desk faces the doorway
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Old 08-30-2009, 04:30 PM   #31
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I don't have to hide anything.. the few people who have come into my life all know about the sites I visit.. I met most online.. however I do have a few friends not from online who know the sites I am at... this one doesn't even make their eyebrows raise.. another one does...
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Old 08-30-2009, 05:08 PM   #32
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.. I use Mozilla .. it deletes all of my history every time I close my computer .. although I have nothing to hide
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Old 09-18-2009, 08:23 AM   #33
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do not forget to delete browsing history and cookies as well
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I use two browsers. We share Firefox and I use Explorer for my....shall we say..personal stuff. Firefox is our default browser, and has an icon on our desktop. I start Explorer from the "Programs" menu. I still do a history cleanse when necessary.

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Old 09-18-2009, 12:21 PM   #36
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If your spouse is suspicious none of that is going to help. There are free or cheap keyloggers available that can be loaded, run invisible and email everything to them as many times a day as they want! Make sure your spyware detects keyloggers!!!
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Nav, we haven't even gotten into the capabilities of windows parental controls...

Anyway.. the safest option is to have your own laptop ... or a netbook if all you want to do is simple web surfing / email type stuff
Hey all.... a cautionary tale where some of you may be able to learn from my mistake...

When my then OW was chatting with me on her home PC's, we pretty much knew she was being monitored by her H. To counteract that, I would change aliases every couple of months or so and would always assume a female persona (which led him to think she was bisexual (she wasn't) because we sometimes strayed even though we were being monitored) and would refer to my wife as my DH, etc.

Well, here is the cautionary part... OW got her own laptop about 9 months after we started our relationship. She had it locked down tight. Password protected. Her H never got to use it, etc. She thought she was safe because he never got on it and never had a chance to install any spying software of any type on it. What we both found out was that he had installed a keylogger at the point of their home router which means that any and all websites visited, chat sessions had, by ANY PC in their home that went through their router for internet access had its internet activity logged. He never installed anything on her laptop, just on their main family computer, but was able to monitor her usage of their home network. (Obviously, this did NOT capture the internet stuff she did at school BUT most of our chats took place while she was at home.)
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try this...seems to work pretty well
http://www.snoopfree.com/PrivacyShield.htm
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Hey all.... a cautionary tale where some of you may be able to learn from my mistake...

When my then OW was chatting with me on her home PC's, we pretty much knew she was being monitored by her H. To counteract that, I would change aliases every couple of months or so and would always assume a female persona (which led him to think she was bisexual (she wasn't) because we sometimes strayed even though we were being monitored) and would refer to my wife as my DH, etc.

Well, here is the cautionary part... OW got her own laptop about 9 months after we started our relationship. She had it locked down tight. Password protected. Her H never got to use it, etc. She thought she was safe because he never got on it and never had a chance to install any spying software of any type on it. What we both found out was that he had installed a keylogger at the point of their home router which means that any and all websites visited, chat sessions had, by ANY PC in their home that went through their router for internet access had its internet activity logged. He never installed anything on her laptop, just on their main family computer, but was able to monitor her usage of their home network. (Obviously, this did NOT capture the internet stuff she did at school BUT most of our chats took place while she was at home.)
Blue, that's scary. Never thought of a program being able to be installed that would capture anything going through the router. Wonder if there is a way to detect and/or get around that if you use a laptop for chats.
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Blue, that's scary. Never thought of a program being able to be installed that would capture anything going through the router. Wonder if there is a way to detect and/or get around that if you use a laptop for chats.
Especially scary if you sometimes go through your neighbor's router like I would when my setup wasn't working for some reason! LOL

I don't know if you can detect it or not but there might be some encryption software that could scramble everything captured. That is just an educated guess on my part though.
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Old 10-12-2009, 09:45 AM   #40
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I use the InPrivate portion of Internet Explorer 8 which deletes all cookies and history when you close the window.

I'm sure, however, that would not help if the keylogger was on the router.
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realization..

knowing that I am capable of making some amazing friendships... but not allowing myself to get too close to anyone.. I know that this is not the place where I will find someone who will sweep me off my feet and make me happy for the rest of my life... only I can make me happy..

so I enjoy what I have.. but I don't ask for more.. I dont expect more.. I take what is given and I care deeply for those who give to me.. I give as much of me as I can without giving of me completely..

god help the next man I do fall in love with.. because when I do love it is intense... it is not halfway... I give all of myself... and it will be a battle to win my heart... because it has been safely tucked away... locked..

and the computer thing lol.. duh... I am single.. I have nothing to hide..
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It really helps that my wife isn't very computer literate. But I usually will position myself so that no one can come up behind me. And I have my browser set to erase all personal information when I close it. I don't think she would have a big issue with me being on here but sometimes its fun to have that dirty little secret.
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Most of us here have to hide the fact that we come her from the SO. What do you do to keep him/her from finding out?

I am very careful and take a number of steps.

First is i never come on this site unless I have the laptop in such a location that no one can come up behind me.

I always have an innocent page in the back ground... and M and F is reduced in size so that i can quickly switch if need be.

I always lock the computer when i get up from it.

I have the screen saver set to start in just a few minutes of inactivity in case I forget to lock the computer if i get up. Yes my screen saver is password protected.
Youre going to end up with a nervous twitch.
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Hmm I thought I was being careful until I read the posts.

Found some great advice on here though.
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Yet another thing to think about:

There was a piece of ABC News recently about a fairly inexpensive program (around $50) that can be downloaded to your cell phone. That's right...just when we thought we had the PC figured out...now this!!

Apparently it can capture your texts and phone conversations, as well as web browsing. One can even remotely activate your speaker phone ~ even if you're not on the phone, someone can listen to a conversation you may be having with friends.

So, if your phone lights up for no particular reason, you get random text messages or hear ambient noise in the background when you're on the phone, you may have spyware.

There are ways to detect it but apparently the easiest way to get rid of it is to have your provider walk you through reloading the operating system, which will delete the tracker.

Sheeesh!!!!
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The only way I get to the site is through my phone- which is a total pain to type on a teeny tiny screen!!!! Ugh

Consider me paranoid.
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