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Old 09-23-2010, 08:02 PM   #1
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Not at your spouse, but in general.

I listen to music for relief.
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Old 09-23-2010, 08:11 PM   #2
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I don't normaly get pissed off, but I guess when I do I just swear and move on...
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Old 09-23-2010, 08:14 PM   #3
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depends on how pissed i am and at who
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Old 09-23-2010, 08:47 PM   #4
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Takes a whole lot to piss me off. But, when i get there i usually want to rip the person's spine through their chest cavity.
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Old 09-23-2010, 08:50 PM   #5
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I get really quiet for a while until I work things out in my mind and with others, then I walk away for a while and when I come back I'm usually un-pissed off
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Old 09-23-2010, 09:07 PM   #6
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Old 09-23-2010, 09:45 PM   #7
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I throw a tantrum and call for my mommy!
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Old 09-23-2010, 09:46 PM   #8
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Old 09-23-2010, 10:02 PM   #9
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I honestly dont get pissed off often...last time I was truly angry was after my son was born...my hubbys abusive mouth set me off and I ended up jacking him up against the wall (not proud of it) so obviously I dont handle my rage well....luckily I am rarely ever angry at that level. Most of the time I am just irritated and I call up or hunt down online a friend that I can babble at and beat the dead horse until I feel better about things...
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Old 09-23-2010, 10:12 PM   #10
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Go for a run, express myself to that person that caused me to feel that way or whoever will listen, blast rage music....decide what I need to do to feel better and make that change. I don't suffer well in silence. Not a good victim. LOL.
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Old 09-23-2010, 10:14 PM   #11
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It depends.....I do a few different things that can be misinterpreted as being pissed or upset....

1. I get quiet
2. I cry
3. I walk away
4. I tell you off
5. I "grrrrrrrrrrr"
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Old 09-23-2010, 10:14 PM   #12
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Work out...or just fume on my own
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Old 09-23-2010, 10:16 PM   #13
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Depends on what I am mad at and what type of control I have:

I get quiet...
I cry
I scream..
I run...
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Old 09-23-2010, 10:18 PM   #14
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I get real quiet and wait for some unsuspecting victim to say or do the wrong thing at the wrong time. I tend to come down hard on people like that and not real proud of it but people have learned to leave me alone when I get real quiet. Therapy may help that. I'm gonna sit here quietly now. LOL.
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Old 09-23-2010, 10:22 PM   #15
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Usually I get quiet, bitch to a good friend, bake or take the dogs for a walk. Either of those 4 work for me and often a combination.
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Old 09-23-2010, 10:29 PM   #16
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Old 09-24-2010, 02:14 AM   #17
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I have to directly tackle whatever pissed me off - either problem solve around it or talk myself out of it...Well, worm myself out of it. If it can't be completely resolved then I aim for damage limitation...maybe try to be strategic. If not enough can be recuperated then I sit and ruminate, probably with the help of a drink and some luxury chocolate. If I still can't shake it from my system then I might turn into a naughty, impulsive 12 year-old.
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depends on how pissed i am..

degree 1, bitch and complain till i feel better

degree 2, i start picking things up and throwing them in the baskets or trash

degree 3, i clean the bathroom, and scrub the ever lovin hell outta the tub,

degree 4, i get in the truck, blasting out "war is the answer" an go to the river, watching the water roll on by, and I cry and scream and beat the crap outta my steering wheel.
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Old 09-24-2010, 06:16 AM   #19
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and I was not pissed when I made this thread. It just occurred to me that others may appreciate how folks around here deal with anger.

Me, it takes a lot for me to get that upset.
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I try to be quiet, while I think of a noncombative way to discuss it. Then I try to talk with the other person about it. If it continues to happen, I try again. If it still continues to happen, I state my position again, in less than polite terms, and walk away.
I learned along time ago that sometimes winning the battle means losing the war. You have to walk a fine line. some things just aren't worth fighting about.
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It's very rare that I get pissed off. It's best that way....after all I am a redhead, and yeah when that Irish temper rises my advice is run....very fast.

But really, I'm just a sweet old gal
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It's very rare that I get pissed off. It's best that way....after all I am a redhead, and yeah when that Irish temper rises my advice is run....very fast.

But really, I'm just a sweet old gal
Hmmmm somehow i believe this. But remeber if u cant run at least i duck.
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I tend to start a cleaning frenzy...
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Depends on what I'm pissed about.

1 I get really quiet
2 listen to music really loud
3 have a few drinks
4 cry
5 call someone I can talk to it about
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I generally keep calm and let time pass before I react. That usually works.

When it doesn't work I tend to go "off my tits!!!"
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