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Old 11-05-2017, 03:29 AM   #226
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Not as important as a new bag of Cheetos, but it is nice once in awhile.
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Old 11-12-2017, 04:52 AM   #227
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Sex may not be everything in a relationship but it is a big part
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Old 11-12-2017, 07:58 AM   #228
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I change my stance from earlier...

...I was just getting tired of standing the other way... carry on...
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Old 01-08-2018, 05:39 PM   #229
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Not for the sake of it. If its great attraction whether its physical or jhc mental intelligence., it is
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Old 01-08-2018, 07:27 PM   #230
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Is breathing important?

Absolutely!!!
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Old 01-08-2018, 08:32 PM   #231
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Since every new person on this site comes with a disclaimer that their spouses doesn’t like sex I would say yep it is
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Old 01-08-2018, 08:53 PM   #232
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It's important but not the MOST important aspect of a loving relationship. I used to equate sex with with love and happiness, but now that I'm actually in a healthy relationship, I realize it's actually the dessert.
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Old 01-08-2018, 10:13 PM   #233
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Sex is like oxygen. You may not think it's that big of a deal until you're not getting any.
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Old 01-08-2018, 10:53 PM   #234
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I used to think so.. But now I dont think it's important.. But it does help
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Old 01-09-2018, 12:04 AM   #235
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I believe so. A couple need to have that intimacy, to feel wanted by there partner.
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Old 01-09-2018, 12:13 AM   #236
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Nope. I hate sex
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Old 01-09-2018, 12:17 AM   #237
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Sex another Urban Legend
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Old 01-09-2018, 12:33 AM   #238
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Spouses who don't think its important are literally ruining the lives of those of us who think it is. Nothing like getting locked into an exclusive relationship only to be deprived of the one thing you're not supposed to share with anyone else.
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Old 01-09-2018, 12:49 AM   #239
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Spouses who don't think its important are literally ruining the lives of those of us who think it is. Nothing like getting locked into an exclusive relationship only to be deprived of the one thing you're not supposed to share with anyone else.
50% of marriages end in divorce. Sex and money are the main reasons
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Old 01-09-2018, 12:50 AM   #240
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It is to me. I made that clear before I got married.
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Old 01-09-2018, 11:15 AM   #241
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Yes but if the connection isn't there it's pointless
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Old 01-09-2018, 12:22 PM   #242
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Yes, I'll have to say sex is important. It's a natural part of everyone's genetic makeup. We eat, we drink, seek shelter, and reproduce. If someone decides to go without sex, it's still there "in the background" so to speak.
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Old 01-09-2018, 01:14 PM   #243
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This topic made me ponder. Where/when did the word “sex” start to mean intercourse and not just gender. I am sure someone knows.
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Old 01-09-2018, 01:40 PM   #244
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People can be having obligatory sex yet if they lack the physical/emotional intimacy in their relationship I highly doubt "sex" alone is going to make anyone feel fulfilled.
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Old 01-18-2018, 06:46 PM   #245
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Yep. It is.
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Old 01-18-2018, 06:48 PM   #246
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People can be having obligatory sex yet if they lack the physical/emotional intimacy in their relationship I highly doubt "sex" alone is going to make anyone feel fulfilled.
I think we should test your hypothesis SunnyD.
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Old 01-18-2018, 06:53 PM   #247
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It is very important. I used to not think so. I think I was brainwashed by society that "there was so much more" to relationships. Now, without it, I feel like my wife's unpaid employee just doing tasks. Not sure what the point of a marriage is without frequent, regular sex.
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Old 01-24-2018, 08:15 AM   #248
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Not as important as caring, but high on the list.
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