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Old 07-18-2008, 07:30 AM   #1
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Sex! Is it important?



So how important is sex in a relationship? Are you waiting for the sun to go down or is it just a tiny little desire?



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Old 07-18-2008, 08:29 AM   #2
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sex is very important
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Old 07-18-2008, 08:39 AM   #3
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not alwys...but affection and closeness is!
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Old 07-18-2008, 08:44 AM   #4
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I feel that sex is very important in that it connects two people in a way nothing else does.
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Old 07-18-2008, 09:17 AM   #5
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I think sex is an important part of a relationship. It's a great way to express the love and the passion you have for each other. Of course there are always other ways to show someone you love them, but this is just a way that's so much more fun.

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Old 07-18-2008, 09:23 AM   #6
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Intimacy is important. If you can achieve that without sex then fine, but sex makes it easier to obtain that closeness - "oneness".
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Old 07-18-2008, 09:33 AM   #7
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is this a trick question?
like i have said in the post about the meaning of life SEX is part of it lol

btw cat what if that hardon never goes down lol
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Old 07-18-2008, 09:38 AM   #8
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Sex is important whether you're in a relationship or not.
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Old 07-18-2008, 10:25 AM   #9
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I agree, food shelter and sex
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Old 07-18-2008, 10:28 AM   #10
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I'm not sure how important it is. I've spent most of the last two years w/o it and am still married, but maybe that's how I found this site.
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Old 07-18-2008, 10:28 AM   #11
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is this a trick question?
like i have said in the post about the meaning of life SEX is part of it lol

btw cat what if that hardon never goes down lol
then you need to go to the emergency room! Ask for the Head Nurse
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Old 07-18-2008, 10:33 AM   #12
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then you need to go to the emergency room! Ask for the Head Nurse
hmmmmmmmm will she help it go down.
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Old 07-18-2008, 10:58 AM   #13
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Well, the less you have, the more it becomes important.

But in a relationship, it has to be equally important (or not important) to both partners. I have friends that rarely have sex and they are both in perfect harmony about it.
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Old 07-18-2008, 11:01 AM   #14
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Sex is very importantant. It's a way to really show someone you love them.
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Sex is very importantant. It's a way to really show someone you love them.
I hear that a lot... sex being the expression of love... i truly feel like an alien on that... to me, sex is just sex, no matter how great it is.
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I think its important......sex is a natural release and a great way to make up after a fight!!
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I hear that a lot... sex being the expression of love... i truly feel like an alien on that... to me, sex is just sex, no matter how great it is.
True... but I think she's talking about when two people are in a commited relationship, which in that case I agree that sex is one way to show love for the other person. Now if you're not in a relationship and just want to have sex with someone because you're attracted to them, then no, sex wouldn't be an expression of love.
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Sex is extremely important; as well as the enjoyment and desire by both partners.
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Old 07-18-2008, 12:09 PM   #19
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I agree, food shelter and sex
Well, I guess just the basics are all we need. But it never hurts to have a little more.
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Old 07-18-2008, 12:23 PM   #20
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When you're not getting it, it becomes all consuming. Yeah....I'd say it's important. It may not be the backbone of a relationship, but if you're lacking in that area, the rest kinda falls apart.
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True... but I think she's talking about when two people are in a commited relationship, which in that case I agree that sex is one way to show love for the other person. Now if you're not in a relationship and just want to have sex with someone because you're attracted to them, then no, sex wouldn't be an expression of love.
Well now i feel bad! Been married 7 years... with him much longer!

Granted... not the greatest relationship ever... love is not the first or second reason of that relationship.

i'm probably gonna go "Duh!" if i ever fall in love and experience it!
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For me and my relationship... sex is important. Not just for me... but her as well.
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For a guy it is near the top of the list. Tough to explain why, but if the sex is not there, then nothing else matters.
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I think it's food, shelter, sex...clothing optional....
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It's almost at the top of my list. I think without sex sometimes to remind me that I am more than a mom, I would slide into a place where I would lose ME.
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