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Old 07-21-2008, 05:55 PM   #51
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Sex?!! Important?!!! I think sex is important in a relationship...more so in a marriage. It should be a private and personal, intimate, and enjoyable connection between two people. Anyone can have sex, I mean every animal (including humans), on the planet is made to have sex, the difference between animals and humans is the connection and the intimacy that humans have ...or should have with their partner.

If you want sex just for a physical release, without a connection or not feeling the intimacy with someone special, I personally think that you have a problem or you are missing something special...that's not to say that sometimes just having sex at the moment, hard, fast, unplanned is not enjoyable, it can be. Sex should be more then a physical release, more then another body to use to make yourself feel better. It should be about two people, about sharing your body with your partner, in ways you both enjoy and feel safe.

The problems begin when a partner becomes ill or uninterested in sex...for whatever reason..if the sex is not happening, it becomes the centre of the problems in the marriage, no matter how well everything else is, the lack of sex becomes the albatros. Sex is a very physical, emotional, personal, priavate, and intimate apart of us, it can damage us or it can build us up.
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Old 07-21-2008, 06:01 PM   #52
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Most relationships in trouble seem to be that way because of communication, money, or some sort of sexual disfunction. A shame really since all these things require is a little a work to get over. Look at the way we were at the start of these relationships, sex was natural, communication was fun, and money just was not that important.
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Sex is extremely important to me! I had a relationship in college where it was based primarily on sex and my marriage was based primarily on everything but (and we were not sexually compatible at all)...so I think there has to be a happy medium for me...I need someone who will pound me three times a day and then play a good game of scrabble...
LOL!! In my next life I'm going to put that in the "Women Seeking Men" ad in the alternative newspaper!

I think girls are raised to marry someone that will make a good husband in other areas.....but nobody tells you the important part sex will play in your over all relationship.
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Old 07-21-2008, 06:07 PM   #54
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Thumbs up ...sorry...I was just being mesmerized byAG...thanks AG for that...

I was going to attempt short pithy humor til Annie Gee utterly intimated...I mean INTIMIDATED ME...

Great stuff and well put...
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Old 07-21-2008, 06:40 PM   #55
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I was going to attempt short pithy humor til Annie Gee utterly intimated...I mean INTIMIDATED ME...

Great stuff and well put...
Me? INTIMIATED YOU? ........I guess I am just a little more serious then most with some issues...humour is good and helpful in some situations...what were you going to say?
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Old 07-21-2008, 06:47 PM   #56
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Default ...WHAT I was going to say...

Sex important...? DOES A SQUIRREL LIKE NUTS?
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Old 07-21-2008, 08:37 PM   #58
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Sex important...? DOES A SQUIRREL LIKE NUTS?
LMAO...and how are those nuts served...roasted, salted, BBQ'd or all natural?
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Sex is extremely important to me! I had a relationship in college where it was based primarily on sex and my marriage was based primarily on everything but (and we were not sexually compatible at all)...so I think there has to be a happy medium for me...I need someone who will pound me three times a day and then play a good game of scrabble...
So do I get triple word score if I can play Scrabble while pounding you..I'll even use the X and the Z...LOL
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So do I get triple word score if I can play Scrabble while pounding you..I'll even use the X and the Z...LOL
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So do I get triple word score if I can play Scrabble while pounding you..I'll even use the X and the Z...LOL
Just so that we are clear...the says, pounding someone's ZOX off is not a legal word! :
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Sex?!! Important?!!! I think sex is important in a relationship...more so in a marriage. It should be a private and personal, intimate, and enjoyable connection between two people. Anyone can have sex, I mean every animal (including humans), on the planet is made to have sex, the difference between animals and humans is the connection and the intimacy that humans have ...or should have with their partner.

If you want sex just for a physical release, without a connection or not feeling the intimacy with someone special, I personally think that you have a problem or you are missing something special...that's not to say that sometimes just having sex at the moment, hard, fast, unplanned is not enjoyable, it can be. Sex should be more then a physical release, more then another body to use to make yourself feel better. It should be about two people, about sharing your body with your partner, in ways you both enjoy and feel safe.

The problems begin when a partner becomes ill or uninterested in sex...for whatever reason..if the sex is not happening, it becomes the centre of the problems in the marriage, no matter how well everything else is, the lack of sex becomes the albatros. Sex is a very physical, emotional, personal, priavate, and intimate apart of us, it can damage us or it can build us up.
Wow, AnnieGee, that was a very good summary of the intimacy of sex. You have certainly come along way since you started coming to M&F....I am intriqued by your emotional, and spiritual growth... keep on going .
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So do I get triple word score if I can play Scrabble while pounding you..I'll even use the X and the Z...LOL
You only get a triple score if while pounding me you say my name and spank me...
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I agree. I only get attention from him when he is turned on but as soon as he is "done" there is no more intimacy. We dont touch or kiss or anything unless i intiate it and for me that is a big part of sex. The intimacy that starts way before the actual act of intercourse.
Sounds like my house. Intimacy helps in the want and need for sex.
Well that and it helps if my husband lasts for more than 2 min 33 sec
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I think it really depends who you ask..... most of us here are going to say its definitely in the top 3.... our spouses, if you can wake them, may not share our opinion.
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I believe that sex is very important in a relationship. It is a deeper level of intimacy. A good and healthy sex life can boost a relationship outside of the bedroom as well. You feel more attractive. You feel needed and wanted and desired. You tend to walk with an extra spring in your step when you are otherwise satisfied. There comes a certain euphoric aura with that level of intimacy. I believe a good sex life, with the right person, can also promote a positive self-image and greater mental stability.
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I used to think it was very important. Now I can't remember!!
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Sex only seems important when you're not getting it.

When you are getting it regularly you put more energy into thinking about other things besides sex.
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