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Old 08-29-2009, 02:02 PM   #1
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Default How do you protect yourself?

Most of us here have to hide the fact that we come her from the SO. What do you do to keep him/her from finding out?

I am very careful and take a number of steps.

First is i never come on this site unless I have the laptop in such a location that no one can come up behind me.

I always have an innocent page in the back ground... and M and F is reduced in size so that i can quickly switch if need be.

I always lock the computer when i get up from it.

I have the screen saver set to start in just a few minutes of inactivity in case I forget to lock the computer if i get up. Yes my screen saver is password protected.
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Old 08-29-2009, 02:20 PM   #2
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Most of us here have to hide the fact that we come her from the SO. What do you do to keep him/her from finding out?

I am very careful and take a number of steps.

First is i never come on this site unless I have the laptop in such a location that no one can come up behind me.

I always have an innocent page in the back ground... and M and F is reduced in size so that i can quickly switch if need be.

I always lock the computer when i get up from it.

I have the screen saver set to start in just a few minutes of inactivity in case I forget to lock the computer if i get up. Yes my screen saver is password protected.

All good things OGP.

One thing I do that you did not mention is once I am finished I do a quick delete of the browsing history. I know if you search you can still find the history, however, why make it easy. Plus I also got busted once when he looked in the history, oops.
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Sounds like you have it covered.. I'm like you I have other windows open..... My computer is password protected. We all have our own laptops so no one needs to be using mine... Hubby is rarely home and if he is, he's in his "Garage" and my children are grown..... I pretty much have the house to myself
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Old 08-29-2009, 02:23 PM   #4
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Sounds like you have it covered.. I'm like you I have other windows open..... My computer is password protected. We all have our own laptops so no one needs to be using mine... Hubby is rarely home and if he is, he's in his "Garage" and my children are grown..... I pretty much have the house to myself
Your lucky Fav, we share the computer, I would love my own laptop. Sometimes when he looks like he found something my heart skips a beat, but then I realize he is just looking at his stats and the world is good again.
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Old 08-29-2009, 02:34 PM   #5
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I too keep up an innocent background...usually facebook. An added bonus is that he's computer illiterate, which helps considerably. If I'm chatting on Yahoo...the person I'm chatting knows that if I say BRB, do not reply. Can't have that chat box popping up...LOL
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Old 08-29-2009, 02:39 PM   #6
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All good things OGP.

One thing I do that you did not mention is once I am finished I do a quick delete of the browsing history. I know if you search you can still find the history, however, why make it easy. Plus I also got busted once when he looked in the history, oops.
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Your lucky Fav, we share the computer, I would love my own laptop. Sometimes when he looks like he found something my heart skips a beat, but then I realize he is just looking at his stats and the world is good again.

Jenn, do you guys use the same log in? Windows has the ability to allow multiple log ins where the other users cannot access your history. Both of my computers are set up this way. The desktop has a password protected account for each member of the family while the laptop just has my account and one for any other family member to use if need be.
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I keep a active gay/homosexual blog that I post in from time to time, open in the background...I figure by the time Christy reads THAT, our discussion of me being on M&Fing is gonna be pretty bland.
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Your lucky Fav, we share the computer, I would love my own laptop. Sometimes when he looks like he found something my heart skips a beat, but then I realize he is just looking at his stats and the world is good again.
OMG I would too!

One other plus for me........

I run a Macintosh........ He's a PC kinda guy..
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Jenn, do you guys use the same log in? Windows has the ability to allow multiple log ins where the other users cannot access your history. Both of my computers are set up this way. The desktop has a password protected account for each member of the family while the laptop just has my account and one for any other family member to use if need be.
If he has admin privileges even with separate log ins you're fuck'd OGP...there are a couple of cleaners that work pretty well...I use Crap Cleaner, not for that purpose, but it will run automatically and does a pretty good job of keeping the crap, cookies, history, etc. off the computer.
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If he has admin privileges even with separate log ins you're fuck'd OGP...there are a couple of cleaners that work pretty well...I use Crap Cleaner, not for that purpose, but it will run automatically and does a pretty good job of keeping the crap, cookies, history, etc. off the computer.

True OAK... i have the only Admin accounts.

Firefox, in Private Browsing mode... is another good way to hide your tracks if you are using a joint computer
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I'm fairly sure he knows, but I have a privacy screen. Unless you're directly facing it, you can't see anything. I also lock it when I'm away. It's my own laptop, but IT is his profession.
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What a pain.....I usually get on at work only, thing is we work together...So, I have to be careful. I use firefox and have my settings to delete history upon closing. If I am at home, I also have multiple windows open. I could never have a password protected computer, he would be suspicious. I do not have a private laptop, he would want access to it anyway.

Kind of sucks, I mean, I get pissed because I have no privacy, then again, I want it to visit a place he may not accept. Double edged sword.
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Your lucky Fav, we share the computer, I would love my own laptop. Sometimes when he looks like he found something my heart skips a beat, but then I realize he is just looking at his stats and the world is good again.
I know that feeling of your heart skipping a beat..ugh and you bite your lip and say to yourself here we go...
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Can't if anyone else is home .. the computer is in plain view . On the other hand .. I have a nice little free program , that cleans ALL temp files with one click if I need it.
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If your spouse is suspicious none of that is going to help. There are free or cheap keyloggers available that can be loaded, run invisible and email everything to them as many times a day as they want! Make sure your spyware detects keyloggers!!!
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If your spouse is suspicious none of that is going to help. There are free or cheap keyloggers available that can be loaded, run invisible and email everything to them as many times a day as they want! Make sure your spyware detects keyloggers!!!
Just when I thought I was getting halfway smart about computers another term like keyloggers is thrown in...
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Just when I thought I was getting halfway smart about computers another term like keyloggers is thrown in...
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If your spouse is suspicious none of that is going to help. There are free or cheap keyloggers available that can be loaded, run invisible and email everything to them as many times a day as they want! Make sure your spyware detects keyloggers!!!

Thank you for mentioning that ! I know about those also .. and some are completely undetectable .. so never never assume you are SAFE.
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Just when I thought I was getting halfway smart about computers another term like keyloggers is thrown in...
Depending on the program it can detect every keystroke, chat conversation, website visited or copies of your emails!
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If your spouse is suspicious none of that is going to help. There are free or cheap keyloggers available that can be loaded, run invisible and email everything to them as many times a day as they want! Make sure your spyware detects keyloggers!!!

Even that won;t completely work sunny. At one point I installed a key logger on my main computer to spy on my wife. All you have to do is tell the spyware software that the keylogger is an accepted program....
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Sounds like were screwed anyway after reading the above post...
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Even that won;t completely work sunny. At one point I installed a key logger on my main computer to spy on my wife. All you have to do is tell the spyware software that the keylogger is an accepted program....
That is true, but if you would go through the bother to clean up your history everytime you go online or have a cover website I think you might want to double check those settings too! There are some very good and reliable detectors out now and they pick up most of the loggers even in stealth mode.
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