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Old 10-08-2005, 03:10 PM   #1
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Arrow A Forum To Talk About Things That Effect Our Non Sex Lives

There are many intelligent people here and I thought a place to talk about current events and real life situations might come in handy
If not it wont be hard to delete
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Old 10-08-2005, 04:14 PM   #2
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There are many intelligent people here and I thought a place to talk about current events and real life situations might come in handy
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Penny, my wife is too dull and too much of a conservative and old fashion, I cant get her to try a new poisition or anal sex even giveing me a blow job is a workout she wont do if I dont push.What can I do about this??She is a wonderfull woman and I love her and when we have sex it's good.But not enough for me.
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I think it's a good idea to have this thread too. There's some very intelligent people here, who can offer some great feedback on any issues I might be having, or just to talk about current events.

I'm not sure the saint read the topic on this thread, but oh well.
Hey, saint, you and I have the same problems at home. Talk to me. I can't give you any advice, but I have big shoulders to lean on.
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Saint you should try other things... my wife doesn't like anal (tried it once when real drunk), she says it "hurts". However, massage back there always gets a stir.
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I tried to talk to my wife today to spice up things a little, and she said o.k. we will try a few new positions but no anal she say's.That's out of the question.I think I made some progress what do you think Jugs?
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I'll try that one Sparks!
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Old 10-11-2005, 03:07 PM   #8
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Post Just my personal opinion..

I am convinced that many people in the sex area are conservative to begin with. You want to know why?

The same reason that many people are conservative about life.

People are afraid of many things, and partuclarly of new things. Do you know what the percentage of people trying new products that find themselves on the market? 4%! You read FOUR PERCENT? Yes, correct.

So if your wife does not want to try new things, I understand that she is part of the 96%. Therefore what do you do?

Be patient and hold her hand in trust in confidence and tell her how much you love her and how you do not wish to hurt her. She is afraid, remember. Do remember that most of us are children emotionally...and cannot accept easily any change.

What seems evident is not your particular case

God knows how many people live with poor sexual satisfaction: you are obviously a man knowledgeable of love. She may not be. So you will teach her with kindness and love and caring for her.

What do you think of this proposal? It might work.

Good Luck.
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Sounds encouraging, Saint. Good for you! Just remember, baby steps. I know from experience. I can be a tab...let's say, enthusiastic, and have heard, "What are you DOING?!" a few too many times for my self esteem. Take it slow. But at least she said yes to trying something new. Try with the lights off first. maybe that will help.
I was thinking about what you said, ffox, about people not willing to try new things. I guess I'm in the 4%. I love trying new products, new restaurants, new styles. Change is part of life. Too bad so many people are resistant to it.


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I tried to talk to my wife today to spice up things a little, and she said o.k. we will try a few new positions but no anal she say's.That's out of the question.I think I made some progress what do you think Jugs?
I am trying the same thing Saint. It will take time.
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Old 10-11-2005, 11:30 PM   #11
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While I like to try new things, once I find something I like, I want to stick with it! If for some reason that thing is replaced with something less than the original ... I get cranky!
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Old 10-12-2005, 07:01 AM   #12
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With my situation no change except we are laughing and yes cuddling a bit, jovial cuddling and play ful things, so maybe just maybe she will relent to more activity but then in another 7 years i,ll be retired, oh dear time waits for no one
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Old 11-15-2005, 09:41 PM   #13
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I like to have non-sexual conversations too.

I don't always don't know the right things to say and get into trouble or start an argument.
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Old 11-15-2005, 10:17 PM   #14
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Talk about real life issues??? OMG!!! What a concept!!!

But, it must be prefaced with a warning!!! Be careful --- be very careful!!
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But there are lots of threads to talk dirty, discuss our sex lives, and everything else. It is nice to talk about other things too. May be less intimidating for the newbies as well.

Besides, where else should MC post her parenting advice to me?
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very true. as far as new positions i'm sorry but no anal. i'll try alot of things but not that 1. believe it or not itds really not good for your body. besides that theres alot of pain i hear. thanks but no thanks. sex should be all about pleasure for both partners.
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I like to have non-sexual conversations too.

I don't always don't know the right things to say and get into trouble or start an argument.
Bonz,this is an open forum... there is not right or wrong in real life...in cyber life we must be freer to discuss all of human problems sexual or non sexual.love,flirting and sex is the real area of human beings and almost everything is related to sex, as Freud pointed out.Please tell us your ideas and let's start an discussion..I believe thi,s forum is free debate forum..every body must be free from his or her restraints.Strat an an arguement...
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very true. as far as new positions i'm sorry but no anal. i'll try alot of things but not that 1. believe it or not itds really not good for your body. besides that theres alot of pain i hear. thanks but no thanks. sex should be all about pleasure for both partners.
It is not healthy, either and not satisfactory...not appropriate for the sexual purposes..Let's obey the nature's rules and nor deviate...
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It is not healthy, either and not satisfactory...not appropriate for the sexual purposes..Let's obey the nature's rules and nor deviate...
Hmmmmm --- how about YOU not deviate, and the rest of us do as we please?
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Penny, my wife is too dull and too much of a conservative and old fashion, I cant get her to try a new poisition or anal sex even giveing me a blow job is a workout she wont do if I dont push.What can I do about this??She is a wonderfull woman and I love her and when we have sex it's good.But not enough for me.
Saint,sex is a work carried to the extend to someone who permits and we permit.So you must be respectable to her wishes..Anal course is not conforming with the nature...it is created for another purpose... but we human beings violate the rules..I believe
we must not.deviate.if your wife does not want...you must accept it..
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Hmmmmm --- how about YOU not deviate, and the rest of us do as we please?
If your partner accepts, do whatever you wish...The condition is to accept and be willing to obey the rights of your partner..In case you don't make love with yourself...Then you can be free..to do what you wish..
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But there are lots of threads to talk dirty, discuss our sex lives, and everything else. It is nice to talk about other things too. May be less intimidating for the newbies as well.

Besides, where else should MC post her parenting advice to me?
Dear Jugs,dirtiness and sex... do not go together...sex is the cleanest act or behavior we have in this world..I don't like sex to be considered as a dirty thing...It is also considered as dirty thing in my culture...If there is no sex, we would not exist on this earth and talk about it.Please don't use sex and dirtiness together..
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But there are lots of threads to talk dirty, discuss our sex lives, and everything else. It is nice to talk about other things too. May be less intimidating for the newbies as well.

Besides, where else should MC post her parenting advice to me?
Statically speaking we spend actually a small amount of time having sex, probably much to the chagrin of many of us, in actuality our thoughts and energy are consumed by what makes us what we are, husbands and wives, mother and fathers, sons and daughters, what keeps us going during the intervals of passages of dreams and desires.
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ok guys i'm going to change the subject here. is anybody here ready for the holidays? i know i'm not.
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Holidays? Are the holidays coming up? HELL NO! I'm not ready!
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