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Old 08-19-2007, 12:08 AM   #1
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Say you meet someone online. You exchange pics, some e-mails, talk on the phone and, if you live with in a reasonable distance you decide it's time to meet. You are attracted to them physically, they are attracted to you. Everythings great! What is something that would be a deal breaker for you? You would call the whole thing off because of it?

For me if someone was rude to a waiter or waitress, that would be a deal breaker. I truly believe you can tell a lot about a person by the way they treat the waiter or waitress. Another for me is bad table manners and talking with your mouth full.

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Old 08-19-2007, 12:12 AM   #2
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Say you meet someone online. You exchange pics, some e-mails, talk on the phone and, if you live with in a reasonable distance you decide it's time to meet. You are attracted to them physically, they are attracted to you. Everythings great! What is something that would be a deal breaker for you? You would call the whole thing off because of it?

For me if someone was rude to a waiter or waitress, that would be a deal breaker. I truly believe you can tell a lot about a person by the way they treat the waiter or waitress. Another for me is bad table manners and talking with your mouth full.

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well if i found out she had a dick.....
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Old 08-19-2007, 12:12 AM   #3
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For me it would be even the slightest hint of a controlling personality.
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Old 08-19-2007, 12:27 AM   #4
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For me it would be even the slightest hint of a controlling personality.
Don't worry..I love to be driven, Zoe..
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Old 08-19-2007, 12:29 AM   #5
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Don't worry..I love to be driven, Zoe..
Yeah, except that when I'm doing the driving, it's to the point of "no return." Might be more than you can handle, Yaser.
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Old 08-19-2007, 12:41 AM   #6
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Yeah, except that when I'm doing the driving, it's to the point of "no return." Might be more than you can handle, Yaser.
I am a workaholic hun..
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Old 08-19-2007, 12:47 AM   #7
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If his boobs are bigger than mine....



actually....poor hygiene...bad manners....drinking too much....and bragging
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Old 08-19-2007, 12:51 AM   #8
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If his boobs are bigger than mine....



actually....poor hygiene...bad manners....drinking too much....and bragging
I have heard Tiger is an alcoholic..Addicted to the drinks of ru blood..
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Old 08-19-2007, 12:51 AM   #9
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actually....poor hygiene...bad manners....drinking too much....and bragging
woohoo, i think i qualify.....
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Old 08-19-2007, 10:03 PM   #10
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If her "ex" is about to get out of prison!
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Old 08-19-2007, 10:05 PM   #11
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The pic was 15 years old and 200 lbs lighter....
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Old 08-19-2007, 10:09 PM   #12
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Lying... if they lied about anything, looks wise or personality wise.
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Old 08-19-2007, 10:10 PM   #13
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Sneaky - the way the person dressed and their appearance would be a sign for me, too. If I had set up a date with someone and they looked like they just got out of bed, then I would have second thoughts. Geez, it took a lot to get this far and I would have expected the same courtesy.
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Lying... if they lied about anything, looks wise or personality wise.
How does the saying go... "Get laid before you lie?"
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Old 08-19-2007, 10:21 PM   #15
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Bottom line...if I found out they lied to me...about anything for any reason...it's over. I need an open and honest relationship...too many marriages are missing that already...
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Old 08-19-2007, 10:35 PM   #16
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Lying... if they lied about anything, looks wise or personality wise.
I'm with you there... no matter how small it might seem. I do not tolerate any form of dishonesty!

I'm also with Zoe about a controlling personality. I was once married for a very sort time to one of those types. It got really ugly... fast!
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Old 08-19-2007, 11:13 PM   #17
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Bottom line...if I found out they lied to me...about anything for any reason...it's over. I need an open and honest relationship...too many marriages are missing that already...
I used to say that very thing till I found out I had been lied to by someone I really cared about...sadly I let him talk his way out of it...never again, not worth the pain, or disrespect I felt after I took him back...not enough ass kissing, that part is for sure.
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Old 08-19-2007, 11:20 PM   #18
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Say you meet someone online. You exchange pics, some e-mails, talk on the phone and, if you live with in a reasonable distance you decide it's time to meet. You are attracted to them physically, they are attracted to you. Everythings great! What is something that would be a deal breaker for you? You would call the whole thing off because of it?

For me if someone was rude to a waiter or waitress, that would be a deal breaker. I truly believe you can tell a lot about a person by the way they treat the waiter or waitress. Another for me is bad table manners and talking with your mouth full.

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Agree with you Sneaky. Also about the lying thing. I think I can get a good feel of what the person is like and whether there is a good vibe there and if we're compatable or not pretty quickly. Guess there could be alot of things that could be deal breakers though.
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Old 08-19-2007, 11:47 PM   #19
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Bad breathe, smelly and rudiness
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Hmmmm..... do the vibrating kind fall in this category? lol........

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Old 08-20-2007, 12:14 AM   #21
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Lying would kep me from meeting. Either lying to me, or when they talk about lying to other friends.

Once we met, dealbreakers as far as pursuing a closer relationship would include appearance, and overall chemistry. Do I feel attracted to her, and do I enjoy being with her? If I were to meet someone, I would want to know that we have more to share than just spit and sperm.
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Lying would kep me from meeting. Either lying to me, or when they talk about lying to other friends.

Once we met, dealbreakers as far as pursuing a closer relationship would include appearance, and overall chemistry. Do I feel attracted to her, and do I enjoy being with her?
Damn, I just lost out on this guy too... just my luck.. okay Aff, I may not be HOT but you would enjoy me...
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Damn, I just lost out on this guy too... just my luck.. okay Aff, I may not be HOT but you would enjoy me...
How did you lose out, silly?

I would enjoy you!

I just am not looking to meet anyone new....but you know good friends like you are always welcome to share a drink
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If I asked him if he was amurderer, and he said no..Then when I met him I had seen his pic on the most wanted sign. Well yeah that might do it....
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