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Old 10-28-2008, 10:16 AM   #26
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Certainly it's possible,,anything is...and I suppose it depends on the couple. I just know that for me it's just not the same...I want her to share my name, my family, as well as my life and my possessions. And while living together is certainly a committed relationship, or should be, to me it's just not the same...I would want her to know that I'm proud to give it, the relationship, my all even to the point of knowing there's the possibility of having to deal with the bullshit...I think it's the willingness of giving all of me as opposed to reserving enough to be able avoid the hard part should that be necessary. Just my humble opinion I know.


You be the man King and you deserve every bit of happiness life can send your way........ And for your lady friend she is a blessed woman to have you in her life. I am sure she is very special as well to have captured the attention of such a great guy....
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Old 10-28-2008, 10:16 AM   #27
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Nope, I wouldn't. LOTS of insurance companies now allow "partners" to be covered.

It's not that I would be afraid of getting hurt, or putting myself out there again... its more just that I am much more realistic about ME, and what I can handle in a relationship. I have some serious flaws that make me a hard person to be married to.
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Old 10-28-2008, 10:54 AM   #28
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I am much more realistic about ME, and what I can handle in a relationship. I have some serious flaws that make me a hard person to be married to.
Yeah...most of us do. I wouldn't marry me.
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Old 10-28-2008, 10:57 AM   #29
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Yeah...most of us do. I wouldn't marry me.
Yeah, but you are kinky enough to cover a lot of those flaws.
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Old 10-28-2008, 10:59 AM   #30
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No way. I would just go back to be a man whore.
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Yeah...most of us do. I wouldn't marry me.

Would you rent yourself out? I can see it now...rent-a-punk....
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Would you rent yourself out? I can see it now...rent-a-punk....

I like that! "Rent-a-Punk." Sure! Even goes with the "American Gigolo" recast idea from the other day/thread.
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I like that! "Rent-a-Punk." Sure! Even goes with the "American Gigolo" recast idea from the other day/thread.
That's where I got the idea from babe....
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Old 10-28-2008, 05:21 PM   #34
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grrrrrr.... I am so happy for you and I quite agree... someone will step into your life and will just make things all worth while..

I am not sure I will marry again.. but I am not going to push the thought completely aside.. for now i am happy being single and meeting new people.. making friends.. etc.....
Like alot of things in life.... you'll know if or when that time comes along where you say to yourself "this is it!". It may not necessarily happen but as long as you stop and smell the roses along the way, the path you take will be that more enjoyable.
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Old 10-28-2008, 06:02 PM   #35
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Never say never... you don't know who will come into your life that will totally take you by storm and turn your life upside down to the point that you want to keep that person in your life forever. I know I had similar thoughts... before I met Mighty. Now, it is a definite. I have never met anyone that has found the places in my heart I never knew I had. I don't just want her in my life until the day I die... I NEED her in my life.
That is so sweet, and it's great that you two found each other!
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Old 10-28-2008, 06:21 PM   #36
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Certainly it's possible,,anything is...and I suppose it depends on the couple. I just know that for me it's just not the same...I want her to share my name, my family, as well as my life and my possessions. And while living together is certainly a committed relationship, or should be, to me it's just not the same...I would want her to know that I'm proud to give it, the relationship, my all even to the point of knowing there's the possibility of having to deal with the bullshit...I think it's the willingness of giving all of me as opposed to reserving enough to be able avoid the hard part should that be necessary. Just my humble opinion I know.
I completely agree
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Old 10-28-2008, 08:26 PM   #37
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don't you ever forget those very realistic qualities my wonderful friend...

affection, devotion, dedication, honesty, respect....to name but a few...and I know this to be true. Oh... and you are passionate in all you do...





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Nope, I wouldn't. LOTS of insurance companies now allow "partners" to be covered.

It's not that I would be afraid of getting hurt, or putting myself out there again... its more just that I am much more realistic about ME, and what I can handle in a relationship. I have some serious flaws that make me a hard person to be married to.
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Old 10-28-2008, 08:28 PM   #38
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I hate to say no because you just don't know what cards will be dealt your way.. Anything is possible.
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Old 10-28-2008, 09:00 PM   #39
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No i would not remarry been there 2 times already and not going for a third
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Don't think so. Too many good looking women out there.
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Ive tried the marriage thing twice now.... I love married life.... but I dont know if I can "honestly" make someone truly happy...and I dont know if I want to take the chance of being heartbroken again...
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This is it for me. I'm on my second marriage, and it's awesome, but my first was an embarrassingly dismal failure. There won't be a third.
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I'm going to go with the "never say never" theory. However, I will say that if it comes to that, it won't happen right away. I married way too young and as I'm getting to know myself more, I realize I fall way too hard. I need a little "me" time before I fall for that again.
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dunno...that's all i can say......
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I'm going to go with the "never say never" theory. However, I will say that if it comes to that, it won't happen right away. I married way too young and as I'm getting to know myself more, I realize I fall way too hard. I need a little "me" time before I fall for that again.
I'll catch you... I might grope you a bit... but you'll be safe!
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I'll catch you... I might grope you a bit... but you'll be safe!
And when it becomes legal everywhere....I'd ask you....and deal with your flaws.
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And when it becomes legal everywhere....I'd ask you....and deal with your flaws.
I'd be the first girl ever with a diamond strap on as an engagement ring!!!


You know I'd say yes... I'm not afraid of bigamy!
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Hopefully diamonds have gotten...umm...smoother *ahem* over the years?


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Hopefully diamonds have gotten...umm...smoother *ahem* over the years?

Ohhh... ouch. Yeah, I should have thought that one thru a little more.

*blush*
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