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Old 05-03-2014, 06:39 PM   #1
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Today I was doing lots of people watching it made me think about getting older. I noticed women and some men that obviously had some work done. Their face and stomach's looked tone, but their old wrinkly arms and legs probably matched their age.
I don't think I'll ever get anything surgically modified. I'm going to grow old with grace.
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Old 05-03-2014, 06:42 PM   #2
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Is Grace cute? If she is, I'll grow old with her.

Only surgery I had was to fix my injured knee.
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I think some people just didn't inherit the age gracefully genes and often it takes a toll on their life as a whole, because on the inside they don't necessarily feel the same. I haven't personally done anything, but only because I don't think I need it not that I'm opposed to it. I think everything should have its limits not Joan Rivers for sure.
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Old 05-03-2014, 06:48 PM   #4
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I think to each his own, but for me I earned everything and don't ever plan to have any surgical modifications....especially those little wrinkles around my eyes from smiling....I kinda like them
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Old 05-03-2014, 06:50 PM   #5
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Right I agree sunny don't take it to the extreme. I say natural is the best way to age. Plus I'm skeered of doctors.
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Right I agree sunny don't take it to the extreme. I say natural is the best way to age. Plus I'm skeered of doctors.

I have never worn anything other than eye makeup and lipstick. I personally think some of the cosmetic surgery options look way more natural than that caked on look I see on so many 30 yrs and up.
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Old 05-03-2014, 07:08 PM   #7
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Ive always been told i look at least five yrs younger than my age. genetics plays a role but so does lifestyle...exercise,diet and your state of mind.
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Old 05-03-2014, 07:10 PM   #8
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I'm not perfect never have been but I'm happy with getting older I'm not going to fight it or try to cover it up with that make up either Sunny. Give me some mascara and lip stick I'm good to go like it or not.
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Old 05-03-2014, 07:13 PM   #9
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I have never worn anything other than eye makeup and lipstick. I personally think some of the cosmetic surgery options look way more natural than that caked on look I see on so many 30 yrs and up.
I completely agree with you. I don't wear any makeup a lot of the time, and when I do it is generally just some eye makeup and a bit of lipstick as well. I'm comfortable with who I am and don't feel like I need to hide behind it. A bit of makeup should enhance, not hide your true self, imho. Plus I think it is better for your skin not having all that clogging your pores.
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Old 05-03-2014, 07:50 PM   #10
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Well, I do care about looks. So I work my ass off at the gym and I eat very healthy, to stay in shape. Yes, I'm almost 40 and it is showing.
I was watching The bold and the beautiful last night, and those people look ridiculous, who would want that! They look stupid, desperately wanting to look like someone 15 years younger. Ridiculous.
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So far I don't plan on doing anything but I'm not opposed to it either. I exercise and eat right...I plan on staying young and healthy a good long time I'm in the best shape of my life at 31 so far.
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As I've gotten older I feel the women around me have only gotten more beautiful. I also feel now that I've grown out of my baby face and actually look like a man I look way better as well.
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I refuse to age gracefully.. I will go yelling, kicking, and punching...
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Hmmmm. Maybe I should wear a wig...
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I think for me there is a difference between taking care of yourself by eating right and exercising and aging gracefully. I do take care of myself. Aging gracefully doesn't mean you give up, it just means you accept the fact and don't consciously make an effort to hide it. I also agree with Adele that your state of mind plays a big part in it as well.
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Is it true that 40 is the new black? Tick tock for me. I hope so.

I am up for anything that doesn't hurt too much. This includes needles in my face, face! eek, tattooed eyebrows (more needles!), and lunges and crunches more than twice a week.

I'll simply have what Carrie Underwood is having and be done with it.

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Genetics smentics. I try to take as much care of myself as possible. Eat very well, exercise, sleep well (usually).. But I have no doubt I will get a little botulism in my forehead some day. I take care of my skin and hair... I look at is as maintenance not trying to stay young. Just like ladies dye their hair and get chemical peels... It's all about being happy with yourself. And not looking like ....http://fecktv.com/wp-content/uploads...ed-botox-8.jpg
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I wouldn't mind a boob lift
Not implants...just put the girls where they belong.
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I'm a fucking train wreck.
I'd say more of a hot mess. (and way to hard on yourself!)
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I need a good skin care routine, any suggestions? I'll never be a marathon runner!!
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I need a good skin care routine, any suggestions? I'll never be a marathon runner!!
I use elizabeth ardens skin care line its pricey but definitely worth it. The best skin care regime imo is drink plenty of water, lather on the spf 60 and exfoliation three times a week with a gentle scrub or a mask. also retin a nightly! Staying graceful is high maintenance lol
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I visit Palm Springs fairly often (family) and it is always funny seeing some hot young chick getting off her bicycle, then seeing her turn around and show you her 80 year old face...so many confusing feelings going on while I'm down there

Sometimes I wonder, with plastic surgery, where are these peoples' friends to tell them they look horrid.
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It's all about maintenance. I will likely dye my hair when I have more gray than black. And while I don't have any wrinkles yet, I'm not opposed to a little Botox if it keeps the deep lines away. Fine lines I don't mind at all. But furrows? No thank you. As to skin care - yes, daily sunscreen is a must as is a nightly serum. I don't think I'll ever go under the knife though.
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