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Old 07-17-2009, 10:54 AM   #26
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Hubby just had his V this past Monday. He was awake (although the nurses said many men opt for the twilight sedation--wimps lol) and didnt feel a thing other than pressure. He isnt swollen and has 4 stitches. Overall he should have had it done 6 years ago when we started talking about it. The paperwork home says no sex for 1 week but he is restless now. He goes back in 1 week for postop followup then 3 months (30-40 ejaculations) for the test to see if he is shooting blanks.
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Old 07-17-2009, 10:56 AM   #27
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30-40 ejaculations are supposed to take 3 months? Wow, I better slow down.
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Old 07-17-2009, 10:57 AM   #28
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Old 07-17-2009, 11:00 AM   #29
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My husband keeps saying no. His reasoning, "just in case." Well, it won't be me, so he must mean his second wife!
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Old 07-17-2009, 11:16 AM   #30
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Same here.... my hubby has been refusing for 5 years now... even though I've given birth to 3 children. Who am I to ask him to go through the least bit of discomfort, right?!! GRRR!!
Same here...although now I think he may be changing his views on the subject. He's recently told me that since I've had some health problems since the delivery of our third baby last month, he's seriously thinking about getting it done. This is a tremendous change from absolutely refusing it before. I am so glad that it's actually sinking in that I've been through so much in order to have the kids that we have. I can't tell you how happy it makes me that he's actually thinking about it.
Believe me TBoyBob, your wife will be extremely happy if you decide to have a vasectomy!
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Old 07-17-2009, 09:01 PM   #31
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I got it done years ago so no chance getting pregnant from me. Not thinking about having more kids is a very good thing.
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Old 07-29-2009, 08:01 AM   #32
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Old 07-29-2009, 12:19 PM   #33
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Hubby had it almost 13 yrs ago... it has been the best thing!!!
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Old 08-16-2009, 03:32 PM   #34
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I had mine done when I was about 30...my first Spanish teacher had missed her period...went in to the Dr's office after work hours and his nurses had left..The Dr and I had a drink...he washed up, he scrubbed the tatas...stuck about a 6 ga needle in the left side and I levitated off the friggen table....it felt like a mule had kicked me in the balls,,,he made his incision and when he pulled on the vas deferens it felt like it was attached to my tonsils ... he went ahead and did the left side and got that fucking needle out again and I said WTF? He asked if I wanted to wait and come back another day to have the right one done. I said hell no!...you better do whatever it is you're gonna do cuz I'm not going through this shit again...Right side was just as bad.... he sewed the boogers up and I left...with instructions to, "give it a break for a week or so"...okay he was a friend and was sorta laid back.

That night I had another Advanced Spanish lesson already scheduled and when I told her about the vasectomy she went ballistic...how was I to know that some of them have superstitions about what happens when you're knuts are not attached to the head of your cock anymore...anyway she insisted I prove to her that it was not forever damaged...which with pride I can say I did! But the ensuing ruckus tore the stitches out of the left side...I wasn't about to go back to that unsympathetic SOB Dr and have the stitches put back in...the resulting scar, to this day, bears testimony to that evenings test firing session...
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Old 08-16-2009, 04:05 PM   #35
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I've had it done about 6/7 years ago.... shooting blanks!
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Old 09-25-2009, 06:16 PM   #36
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Need to do it but 30-40 "shots"? That will take years!
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Old 09-25-2009, 08:50 PM   #37
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No thanks not for me Ive had surgery to my urinary ysystem and kidneys before and never again if I can help it.....
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Old 09-25-2009, 08:55 PM   #38
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Old 09-25-2009, 10:01 PM   #39
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I got clipped about 8 years ago, no change in function or output. Funniest thing was my doc gave me an "navel orange" key chain on the follow-up..asked him why and he said because I was now "all juice and no seeds" it hurt a little to laugh
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Old 09-26-2009, 01:50 AM   #40
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Had it done and haven't worried since!
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Old 09-26-2009, 02:00 AM   #41
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I had it done after my daughter was born. Like ligation, there is a minor occurrence of re-attachment. I had no side affects whatsoever. The Dr was a friend of mine and I did my own assist. I came in prepped and held the instrument tray on my belly.
I was single at the time, and it was a TOTAL relief to not have to worry about pregnancy. For your partner, you save her the hormonal risks of the pill. Even married people have stressors about conceiving and I have heard many wives say that they enjoy sex more without the pregnancy worry or the interruption of birth control.
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Old 09-26-2009, 03:26 AM   #42
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I had it done after my second son was born 32 years ago. I knew I would not give up sex but I couldnt afford more childern. best thing I ever did.
a vasectomy means never having to say your sorry.
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Old 09-26-2009, 04:43 AM   #43
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I'm curious what all the men have to say about this. I'm sure some have already gone through this process. Did anything change afterwords (other than the lack of sperm of course)? Are your orgasms the same? Does the feeling change? Do you last longer, shorter, no change? Do you feel emasculated? Does it make you feel like you can go out an have an affair and not worry (come on, we've all thought it, right)???? Any of your thoughts are welcome and appreciated!
I had mine in 2002 at the age of 33. Nothing changed afterwards, nothing at all. (Well, except I did get an all too rare blow job from my wife as my first sexual act to test out the equipment a week later.)

It didn't make me feel like I could go out and have an affair BUT I have thought many times how it would have helped my grandfather who fathered a child in his late 50s (and not with grandma).

Of course, the procedure itself wasn't the most pleasant thing but it wasn't the worse thing either.
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Old 09-26-2009, 05:05 AM   #44
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Old 11-23-2009, 03:30 PM   #45
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Old 11-23-2009, 05:41 PM   #46
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Ok, so after my wife and I are done having kids, the plan is for me to get a vasectomy. I was reading the "Condoms?" thread earlier and the big "V" seemed to come up several times.

I'm curious what all the men have to say about this. I'm sure some have already gone through this process. Did anything change afterwords (other than the lack of sperm of course)? Are your orgasms the same? Does the feeling change? Do you last longer, shorter, no change? Do you feel emasculated? Does it make you feel like you can go out an have an affair and not worry (come on, we've all thought it, right)???? Any of your thoughts are welcome and appreciated!

Women, do you notice any changes in your husbands sex life?? Sex drive decrease/increase? Taste different? Anything you can think of?
I don't know if I ever will. I'd hate to do it and find another who I want a kid with. Plus, the thought of possibly impregnating my partner is a huge turn on for me.
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Had it done and no issues! Best thing ever! No worries about having another child...two boys is enough!
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