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Old 05-21-2007, 12:46 PM   #1
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i have a lot of pm's that i've sent that show up as "unread" in my user CP. i was starting to get paranoid that a lot of the men here just didn't want to hear from me, so they didn't read my messages!

but several that i sent this morning, that show up as unread, i know for a fact were read.

how can i know if someone's mailbox is full, or if someone is ignoring my message, or if it was actually read but mistakenly says unread????
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i have a lot of pm's that i've sent that show up as "unread" in my user CP. i was starting to get paranoid that a lot of the men here just didn't want to hear from me, so they didn't read my messages!

but several that i sent this morning, that show up as unread, i know for a fact were read.

how can i know if someone's mailbox is full, or if someone is ignoring my message, or if it was actually read but mistakenly says unread????
1) If the mailbox is full, you will receive a rejection message (rejection of your message, not of you!!!!)

2) If you are on someone's Ignore list, you will be notified via a rejection message.

3) Most people disable the Acknowledge Receipt function because they take up significant space in their PM allocation, thus limiting the number of PMs you can receive. You can assume that, if you did not receive a rejection notice, the message was received at their mailbox, but may or may not have been read yet.

Hope that helps -- course, now that I know you have sent lots of men PMs, and I didn't get one, it's my turn to
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3) Most people disable the Acknowledge Receipt function because they take up significant space in their PM allocation, thus limiting the number of PMs you can receive. You can assume that, if you did not receive a rejection notice, the message was received at their mailbox, but may or may not have been read yet.
so if i disable that function, my mailbox can store more than 150? how many? (150 fills up fast!)

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so if i disable that function, my mailbox can store more than 150? how many? (150 fills up fast!)



I will remedy that situation immediately.

Actually, the 150 is the maximum -- -whether they are actual PMs or Receipt Acknowledgments --if you request Receipt Acknowledgments, each message takes up two spots (1 in SENT, and 1 in RECEIPT PENDING, which, of course, is converted to a RECEIPT ACKNOWLEDGED when the receiver acknowledges it).

Hope that helps.
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Actually, the 150 is the maximum -- -whether they are actual PMs or Receipt Acknowledgments --if you request Receipt Acknowledgments, each message takes up two spots (1 in SENT, and 1 in RECEIPT PENDING, which, of course, is converted to a RECEIPT ACKNOWLEDGED when the receiver acknowledges it).

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oh, ok. well, i just went to my options, but couldn't figure out to turn that option off. can you help a damsel in distress?
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I enjoy messages.......giving and receiving.......

sounds like something else enjoyable......
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oh, ok. well, i just went to my options, but couldn't figure out to turn that option off. can you help a damsel in distress?

Hell, if I knew how, I would have turned mine off long ago. Let me look ---
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I enjoy messages.......giving and receiving.......

sounds like something else enjoyable......
well affable, i will look forward to some giving and receiving* after you reach the required 150 posts.

*pm's that is---get your mind out of the gutter
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well affable, i will look forward to some giving and receiving* after you reach the required 150 posts.

*pm's that is---get your mind out of the gutter
I figured you meant that....*cough darn cough*
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I don't tend to receive many PM's other than from a couple of very special friends. I also tend not to initiate them unless a see a post where someone may need a word or two of encouragement or support.
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Now it is my turn to pout and cry!!! I've been here nearly two years and have never had my PM filled up or even close!


If I cry long and loud enough, will you ladies here console me with kind and sexy words in some PM"S? I am feeling neglected...













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[quote=GeekMaster]Now it is my turn to pout and cry!!! I've been here nearly two years and have never had my PM filled up or even close!


If I cry long and loud enough, will you ladies here console me with kind and sexy words in some PM"S? I am feeling neglected...
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Well you're not alone you boob....quit your crying. Mine's never been full either. Of course I delete them often because I don't like to have all that mail lined up....makes me think of a full wastebasket at home...empty the dang thing.














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pms are exciting......but to give is more blessed........oh heck - I like getting too!
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Now it is my turn to pout and cry!!! I've been here nearly two years and have never had my PM filled up or even close!


If I cry long and loud enough, will you ladies here console me with kind and sexy words in some PM"S? I am feeling neglected...

No silly man...........you need yourself an avatar as Sexy as Amaretto's..........THEN see how fast that pm box fills up......crying and whining will get you NO where!
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No silly man...........you need yourself an avatar as Sexy as Amaretto's..........THEN see how fast that pm box fills up......crying and whining will get you NO where!
Is this one better???
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YES.........definately better........But NOT quite good enough to fill that pm box up..........
hmmm..........what about something like this?
Some women just cannot be satisfied...

How is this one??
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How about when someone just needs a pickmeup for a bad day.... That one PM can make a world of difference too. Now who needs a pick me up!?
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How about when someone just needs a pickmeup for a bad day.... That one PM can make a world of difference too. Now who needs a pick me up!?
I agree........... PM me please..............
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i have a lot of pm's that i've sent that show up as "unread" in my user CP. i was starting to get paranoid that a lot of the men here just didn't want to hear from me, so they didn't read my messages!

but several that i sent this morning, that show up as unread, i know for a fact were read.

how can i know if someone's mailbox is full, or if someone is ignoring my message, or if it was actually read but mistakenly says unread????
PM me, Amaretto and I'll let you know if I get it....I'd love to hear from you...
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Hi Carnak!
You don't have enough posts yet to recieve PMs!
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Of course they are!
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