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Old 02-13-2010, 04:57 PM   #1
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If your spouse magically became all you ever wanted them to be, would you continue visiting this site? If your response is yes, tell us why.
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Old 02-14-2010, 09:56 PM   #2
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Yes, to help others get through tough times. And as I always am I would stay honest and would not play games...
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Old 02-14-2010, 10:09 PM   #3
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Funny thing about this question. It addresses him changing not me. I have changed since he started cheating on me and will find it very hard if ever to trust him again. He is changing for the better in some ways and that makes my decision to stay with him easier, but I am not so sure I will change enough.

I will come here as long as my friends I have made here come here. I will come here as long as the man I fell in love with comes here and I will continue to come here as long as I want to. If I stop it will be because of me and changes in me.
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Old 02-14-2010, 10:19 PM   #4
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Hard for me to answer this since I'm getting a divorce......but let's play the "what if" game. If things changed before things got really bad and I fell in love with him all over again, I would probably not visit the site anymore.

Although I would miss my friends here, the fantasies of being with someone else would potentially hurt what I had with my new and improved hubby.

But....as I said. Not really in the cards for me anyway.
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Old 02-14-2010, 10:58 PM   #5
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Yes, I believe I would. I have made friends here and I would want to stay in touch.
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Old 02-14-2010, 11:24 PM   #6
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It's really hard to imagine my husband changing that much but if he magically did I'm sure I would still visit this site to make new friends and play with the friends I have already made. Just may not be as much as it is now.
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Old 02-15-2010, 01:30 AM   #7
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No.... if my spouse was to become everything I wanted her to be, I would have no need to "escape" from my reality. My need for this site, and my other social internet usage, would drop off significantly.
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Old 02-15-2010, 01:39 AM   #8
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I cannot even imagine this happening........Ever, but lets say it did, I could not just drop the people here that have helped me through my troubles, and made me a better person, I would not leave them...........
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Old 02-15-2010, 02:00 AM   #9
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not being married it is different for me.. however.. if things keep going the way they are going with this wonderful man of mine... I won't need the site.. I may stop in from time to time.. but I think I would spend most of my time living this life I want to live with him.. I wouldn't let go of the people who are true friends.. I have them on my IM, email, or cell phone.. I would carry them with me forever.. but I would really need to move on... I would want to focus all my energy on him.. good times and bad.. for he deserves it..
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Old 02-15-2010, 11:55 AM   #10
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I am too new here to give a complete answer but part of my motivation to be here is to meet new people and exhange ideas. So I guess in a manner of speaking its more than flirting. Its also about making friends. And if I have friends here then I dont see why I would stop visitng.
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Old 02-15-2010, 12:04 PM   #11
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No. I'm in counseling trying to get that marriage. The role play, the flirting, the dirty stuff, I ultimately want with my husband. I would keep in touch off site with those that have become my close friends. I can't be here and not play. It's too fun.
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Old 02-15-2010, 12:09 PM   #12
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If things changed at home, I would still visit this site. Today, especially, helped me a lot to post and get a grip. It was theraputic and I feel so much better!!!
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Old 02-15-2010, 12:14 PM   #13
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I would still be here .... till Penny Lena or Barkiss kicked me out ... I think that if you magically figure out how to revive a marriage that has seen the darkness of "what its like to be in an unhappy marriage", that knowledge/information/advice would prove invaluable on a site as this one. Sure we all want to have that fantasy of something on the side ... but its just that ... its filler for a certain void we all lack, if a member were able to have that need fulfilled by their spouse I would be happy for them ... and happier yet if they were to stay and share how they came to that place.
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Yes I would absolutely. I am a huge flirt! So even if I was looking for nothing more I would still enjoy that and the friends I have made. I might let me hubby in on the secret though if I was 100% satisfied at home. He knows I am a flirt, I always have been. I flirt with all his friends, random guys I encounter out and about, etc., so I really dont think he would mind online.
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just the fisting thread. No woman could make me THAT happy
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I would but only to say hello to my friends here but it would be not as often, its not going to happen though.
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Old 02-15-2010, 01:12 PM   #17
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Funny, but I came back not because things changed at home but because things changed with a friend I met here. I can't complain too much about my husband....I just wish the two worlds could stay balanced
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"IF" things changed, I would not jeopardize that change. I would want to do what I could to insure a happy, healthy relationship.

My dear and close friends go beyond this site and I would keep them always!
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Old 02-15-2010, 07:39 PM   #20
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Yes, I would continue to come here. I enjoy reading the posts, posting and heaven knows I need a good laugh every now and again. Selfish I know but I am being honest.
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Things have changed for me dramatically. but I do stopped by to say hello to my friends. But I don't hang around anymore I'm busy....hmmmmm
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I am not coming to this site because things are bad at home
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I just like to flirt and hear kind words once in a while. Home is way to much drama latley.
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I would still be here .... till Penny Lena or Barkiss kicked me out ... I think that if you magically figure out how to revive a marriage that has seen the darkness of "what its like to be in an unhappy marriage", that knowledge/information/advice would prove invaluable on a site as this one. Sure we all want to have that fantasy of something on the side ... but its just that ... its filler for a certain void we all lack, if a member were able to have that need fulfilled by their spouse I would be happy for them ... and happier yet if they were to stay and share how they came to that place.

Wait!!! You mean it doesn't count if I do it? Then why were you complaining earlier?
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YES
Because I have strong attachments.
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