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Old 07-14-2010, 12:49 PM   #1
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I'll just throw this one out to the crowd because I'm running late...

To what degree and in what sense are you attracted to intelligence? Are you looking for someone with the same intellect as you or would you prefer it to differ?
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Yes, Im attracted to intelligence. I dont like running the conversation, being the smart one in the chatter...I want to be understood and acknowledged and a smart guy does that for me.....

to what degree has no bearing for me, its all relative...I just find a good flowing conversation that rises above sexual attraction very appealing...

I like someone that can rant and rave and actually have valid points. Someone that can teach me a thing or two, and be willing to learn a bit in return. In an intelligent conversation, you can find passion on any given subject, and feel understood, and enlightened...

yeah, Brink, I dig a smart guy...
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Old 07-14-2010, 12:58 PM   #3
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To what degree and in what sense are you attracted to intelligence? Are you looking for someone with the same intellect as you or would you prefer it to differ?
Now the obvious answer to that "same intellect as me" is of course : Pfffffffftttttttttt AS IF!!???

But on the basic level I would prefer someone in the Whicket Smaht category. Big Brains are greater than Big Boobs!
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Old 07-14-2010, 01:05 PM   #4
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Now the obvious answer to that "same intellect as me" is of course : Pfffffffftttttttttt AS IF!!???

But on the basic level I would prefer someone in the Whicket Smaht category. Big Brains are greater than Big Boobs!
I agree with you!!!!
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Old 07-14-2010, 01:06 PM   #5
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I know what ya mean trying to find someone with the equivalent intellect.

So naturally I need someone with a high IQ to match my own......'course CRS seems to happen more and more often the older one gets so it is often easy to fool moi.

It goes without saying....if he gets my humour than he is one hell of a smart guy!
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It's the most important thing to me. I mean, I don't want anyone nasty looking or stinky or anything...but brains...to me...are hotter than anything else. Have a discussion with me, try & change my mind, make me see something a different way...mental chess...the best forplay on the planet.
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Old 07-14-2010, 01:07 PM   #7
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I'm not very bright so I like talking to guys who enjoy learning more.. they don't have to be super intelligent.. I would be lost in conversation with them then.. but I like to think and I like it when a guy makes me think..

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I know a lot of nerds that get little or no lovin...just saying. I think intelligence is more of a glue that holds attraction in place for the long term. When the intelligence levels are way off..one partner gets bored and agitated and ends up leaving.

**cough cough**

When two smart people get together the creativity and passion go through the roof!

Smart girls is sexy. That's why this place is so fun.
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Yes, but you generally have to have at least ONE category though
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Yes, but you generally have to have at least ONE category though
I've got big boobs but dumb now and that ain't working out so well. Next time I'm shooting for big brains AND big boobs.

Is that too much to ask? Really?
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Old 07-14-2010, 01:23 PM   #12
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I know what ya mean trying to find someone with the equivalent intellect.

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Not really....we actually grade you people on a curve to make it more fair
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Old 07-14-2010, 01:28 PM   #13
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I'm definitely attracted to intelligence, but it must be tempered with the willingness to be taught- quiet self confidence without arrogance.
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Old 07-14-2010, 01:33 PM   #14
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Okay. Story time. Gather around and don't look up my skirt.

Something very strange happened to me a couple months ago. I invited a fossil expert to come talk to my students and show his giant collection of fossils. He was NOT my type physically at ALL. On a normal day, I wouldn't be attracted to him at all.

Well, as this VERY intelligent man started talking about his fossils, I felt little.....pangs of excitement down below. Hmmmm....that's strange. As he continued, I increasingly got more and more turned on. I started imagining doing all sorts of dirty things to this poor, innocent man who had NO idea what was going through my mind.

Honestly....if he had in any way flirted with me and for some reason asked me out on a date....I would have. OMG. I was DYING by the end.

So, yes. Intelligence seems to be a tad important to me.
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Old 07-14-2010, 01:34 PM   #15
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I don't know how women feel about those qualities in men,.. but an intelligent woman is my weakness. Talk to me about the books you read or the music you're in to and I'll be smitten.

It adds a whole magic to the relationship.. witty dialogue, erudite references,.. it's all lethal to me.
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I am so intelligent that it takes me weeks to figure out what I posted yesterday here and why .

But seriously, the overall package of a person is the important part and not one particular item like intelligence or hair color.
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Okay. Story time. Gather around and don't look up my skirt.

Something very strange happened to me a couple months ago. I invited a fossil expert to come talk to my students and show his giant collection of fossils. He was NOT my type physically at ALL. On a normal day, I wouldn't be attracted to him at all.

Well, as this VERY intelligent man started talking about his fossils, I felt little.....pangs of excitement down below. Hmmmm....that's strange. As he continued, I increasingly got more and more turned on. I started imagining doing all sorts of dirty things to this poor, innocent man who had NO idea what was going through my mind.

Honestly....if he had in any way flirted with me and for some reason asked me out on a date....I would have. OMG. I was DYING by the end.

So, yes. Intelligence seems to be a tad important to me.
why do I feel like the word Fossil in this story should have been in quotes and followed by a wink................. "fossil"

NOW the rest makes sense...........PERV
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Intelligence is a plus, but needs to be balanced with the rest. A good well rounded woman who is intelligent, healthy, personable, playful, sexy, beautiful, caring and has an interest in exploring her naughty side is what I'm looking for in a woman.
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One of the most basic elements in my view...to keep things interesting.
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I make no promises. Is that a hint of lace I see?
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Old 07-14-2010, 02:27 PM   #21
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I think and find intelligence very attractive. but it depends on how she carries herself. A intelligent woman is sexy only if it doesnt make her arrogant.
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It's always relevant to how the intelligence is applied.
Book-smarts, and pieces of framed parchment mean less than critical thinking and logic.

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I find it very sexy. To be able to have an intellegent conversation and be able to switch to sexy mode is a turn on .
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intelligence is very sexy. But lets not get that confused with seriousness, vanilla or boring or not being able to cut loose.

I'm with Saturn, a balance is needed.
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