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Old 03-18-2011, 06:33 PM   #26
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Personally ... I don't think so ... I gotta have some kind of feeling for the girl I am having sex with.
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Old 03-18-2011, 08:43 PM   #27
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I lost that gene in my brain somewhere. Maybe BEFORE the sex it can just be a flirtacious, sexy kind of fun relationship...but after the sex...it starts messing with my head. I don't like feeling used. Even if I was using too. More power to the people that can do it!
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Old 03-18-2011, 08:47 PM   #28
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I can't have "just sex" nor will I ever.. again.. I have tried it with my spouse the last few times.. and even though that was years ago.. I still remember how awful I felt afterwards.. Without the feelings of love.. it's cruel and meaningless.. To me sex is truly a special event that takes place between two people who love each other... if you think differently.. what would you tell your daughter?
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Old 03-19-2011, 10:38 AM   #29
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Ok but ONLY in the name of research!!! You keeping the notes or am I??
I say we do it as video log entries, just so we can replay it for specific details.
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Old 03-26-2011, 11:02 PM   #30
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one time sure can be juss sex,but after that emotions usually get involved
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Old 03-26-2011, 11:05 PM   #31
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Maybe I'm old fashioned but no it cannot be "just sex". I will feel used and dirty afterwards. I can only have sex with someone who is special to me.
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Old 03-26-2011, 11:20 PM   #32
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absolutely can be just sex.
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Old 03-26-2011, 11:48 PM   #33
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Yes...100% can be just sex
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Old 03-27-2011, 01:20 AM   #34
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Yes but only with pain. Let's face it, sex is more than just ejaculation. If it wasn't, masturbation would qualify as "just sex". It's as much mental ejaculation as physical.

Oh and how many times can I say ejaculation in one post?
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Old 03-27-2011, 01:22 AM   #35
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Maybe I'm old fashioned but no it cannot be "just sex". I will feel used and dirty afterwards. I can only have sex with someone who is special to me.
there was maybe a time it could be, these days i need them to be special too
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Old 03-27-2011, 01:25 AM   #36
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honestly I dont think it could be just sex for me...I love myself more than that....
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Old 03-27-2011, 03:22 AM   #37
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Old 03-27-2011, 09:16 AM   #38
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Can it ever be be "just business"?
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Old 03-27-2011, 11:25 PM   #39
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just sex can happen, but I prefer at least the basis in some emotion. expression of that emotion may have boundaries in some cases, but slightly unavoidable for me.
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Old 03-27-2011, 11:31 PM   #40
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I like having a connection. ....That feeling that rushes through your body when you finally get to run your fingers over the body of someone your emotionally tied to...The excitement building and passion finally getting to express itself.
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Old 03-28-2011, 09:16 AM   #41
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I also need a connection of friendship and trust with a women before I can have sex with her.
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Old 03-28-2011, 07:43 PM   #42
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connection is part of what gets my blood pumping. without it its hard to even feel in the mood.
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Old 03-28-2011, 07:46 PM   #43
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it always is just sex, depends on how much emotions you put into it
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Only..can we have 'just sex' for a year?
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Hmmm..let me think about it..can I get back to you?


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Hmmm..let me think about it..can I get back to you?

well if you have to think about it then its a no..I am sure someone will pity me and just sex me
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Why would it have to be pity?

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Old 03-28-2011, 08:00 PM   #48
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I would rather have just sex with myself.
I want a connection if I'm having it with someone else
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truthfully..NO I can't have just sex..I need all the emotions that go along with it good or bad..the connection...
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