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Old 01-13-2012, 09:56 AM   #1
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Old 01-13-2012, 10:30 AM   #2
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Roland usually does... he begs and begs... stares me down, I close my eyes and when I open them he's moved closer... those little ears tempting and teasing me until I just can't resist anymore...
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Old 01-13-2012, 11:04 AM   #3
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Yeah, sounds like me lately, begging and begging. She usually caves in for duty sex. I actually told her "thanks 4 the sex" on Wednesday.
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Old 01-13-2012, 11:07 AM   #4
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poor Roland is usually the one who has to do the duty... lol.. btw... he is my vibrator.. not a man... I haven't had sex with a real man in well over a year now...and I really really need to
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Old 01-13-2012, 11:14 AM   #5
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You sound like me Scoobertina. I used to initiate as often as i could. Got shot down so many times, I gave up about a year ago. Now Rosie takes care of business! lol
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Old 01-13-2012, 01:50 PM   #6
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lol @ the convo....

Here it's mostly him I will admit...He chases me around, he whips it out and off we go....Then I'll get in my moods where I'll slap his ass or grope him or just come out n say..."We fuckin tonight?"....I like the 60-40 odds here
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Old 01-13-2012, 01:54 PM   #7
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as he gets older, its 60-40 me.. He's doing great keeping up but I'm the one always needing it.. lol
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Old 01-13-2012, 01:54 PM   #8
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Not me, not anymore...you can only get shot down so many times before you take the hint.
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Old 01-13-2012, 02:30 PM   #9
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90% me.
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Old 01-13-2012, 02:36 PM   #10
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50/50 but we only have sex when i want it.

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Old 01-13-2012, 02:37 PM   #11
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I'm also in the 90% range. I start on like Monday by letting her know I would really enjoy going upstairs and she gets me in sometime that week usually. This year is starting out rough though, we have had sex only once this year so far.
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Old 01-13-2012, 02:44 PM   #12
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as there is only me here, you do the math.i already have.guess the answer lol
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Old 01-13-2012, 02:53 PM   #13
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Old 01-13-2012, 03:13 PM   #14
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Old 01-13-2012, 03:28 PM   #15
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50/50 but we only have sex when i want it.


thats the problem if the legs are closed were not coming in.
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Old 01-13-2012, 03:31 PM   #16
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Typically me and I'm ok with that
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I have to admit that this was one of those wtf? moments for me in life... I always assumed the given was that we both wanted to have sex, and it was also assumed we both knew we fit it in during the day or night sometime when it was the best opportunity for that specific day.. I never thought of it in terms as either of us initiating a 'given'.. sex was desired.. it got fit in even on hectic days. But, I guess my asumption and my being overly comfortable with that idea made me appear to be a non initiator. We kept having sex, but i found out there was and anger built up towards me. If I'd had that information earlier, I would have talked all that out. Once I'd found out the information, unintended resentment had already built up around something I hadn't realized I'd been doing. So.. some of it is about assumption, different points of views and personalities, and communication. I'm overly laid back which is a good thing sometimes, and a fault other times.
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Typically me and I'm NOT ok with that
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Old 01-13-2012, 10:10 PM   #19
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The first 7 years of marriage it was 50/50... 7 to 14 years now 70/30... Now that we started our 17th year is getting to be 80/20 on me.
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95% me... (*sigh*)
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Old 01-14-2012, 02:42 AM   #21
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I'd say, verbally, 60/40 her.....
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Not me, not anymore...you can only get shot down so many times before you take the hint.
I so understand this trauma.
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Old 01-14-2012, 08:57 AM   #24
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99% me and it does my head in......
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