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Old 10-24-2013, 09:03 PM   #1
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I sleep in GA, my ex sleeps in VA, my crush sleeps in..... well, not GA...
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No way I'm a cuddlier just don't fart on my leg or breath sleep breath in my face.
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Nope. The day we start that is the day I know it's done ..
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Old 10-24-2013, 09:24 PM   #7
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For the last 2 years of my marriage, I slept on the couch. For many reasons...
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Old 10-24-2013, 09:24 PM   #8
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We sleep in the same bed with separate blankets....cuz we're both blanket hogs
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Old 10-24-2013, 09:48 PM   #9
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We started doing that a few years ago. We have different schedules, one of us snores, one of us farts, one of us grinds their teeth, one of us flails about while having bad dreams. We go to bed in the same room but and watch TV or whatever, but once one of us commences the aforementioned, I go to my own room.

Separate bathrooms rock as well.
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Wife sleeps in a recliner in the bedroom. I think we are substantially roommates with kids at this point.
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Old 10-24-2013, 10:11 PM   #11
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We started doing that a few years ago. We have different schedules, one of us snores, one of us farts, one of us grinds their teeth, one of us flails about while having bad dreams. We go to bed in the same room but and watch TV or whatever, but once one of us commences the aforementioned, I go to my own room.

Separate bathrooms rock as well.
,,,,,if I'm adding correctly, there are 4 of you trying to sleep in the same bed and it sounds pretty noisy and stinky.
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Hey, I don't breathe sleep breath in your face...I breathe YOUR breath! (wait, is this the Creepy or Not thread?!)

I'm a cuddler as well. You can't spoon in separate beds.
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We've been sleeping in separate rooms for years. I miss having someone to cuddle with, have sex with, roll over and snuggle up against.....
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(Reads post...looks at avatar...reads post again...shakes head) Doesn't compute.
Thank you. I don't get it either, but at this point I've given up on him and looking for a replacement. Life's too short.
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..and then there's always the spontaneous half-dream state sex
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Oh, I miss that too!! Thank gawd for BOB.
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Let me raise my hand here....lol... Guilty! Yep! For almost two years now.. It's out of necessity .... But I miss the old times!
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Do you ever get sick of trying to make people feel less than you?
Poke fun at me if you please. Reality is 'old man' .. That I'm more mature when it comes to relationships than most the older people on this site. Experience doesn't always come with age. And if anyone here would take five minutes and really try to get to know me you'd realize that sometimes what I have to say is worth hearing. And if sleeping in the same bed is an important part of keeping a relationship strong for me .. Then that's reason enough for my answer in my situation.
Ugh. You make me crazy .. And you smell like a wet cat.
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Do you ever get sick of trying to make people feel less than you?
Poke fun at me if you please. Reality is 'old man' .. That I'm more mature when it comes to relationships than most the older people on this site. Experience doesn't always come with age. And if anyone here would take five minutes and really try to get to know me you'd realize that sometimes what I have to say is worth hearing. And if sleeping in the same bed is an important part of keeping a relationship strong for me .. Then that's reason enough for my answer in my situation.
Ugh. You make me crazy .. And you smell like a wet cat.
hey I often make myself look less than many if thats any concolation.

thanks for elaborating....because I'd hate for you to come across as superior because many of us sleep in different beds but still remain in love and together..

I'll keep my distance in future ....sorry

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hey I often make myself look less than many if thats any concolation.

thanks for elaborating....because I'd hate for you to come across as superior because many of us sleep in different beds but still remain in love and together..

I'll keep my distance in future ....sorry
Did I say that it's bad in every relationship? For some it works. I know several great marriages that spend their time in separate rooms while they sleep. I in no way think that it means it's over for them. I was referring to me .. And that's the only way I worded it. If you took it differently that's not my fault.
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