Married And Flirting Duplicate Memberships Has To Stop

Penny · 07-02-2008, 02:21 PM

I've had software installed that will alert me when someone that is a member here signs on with a new user name. This is being done to help protect our members from being hurt by people pretending they are someone they are not. If your computer savvy I'm sure you can get around it but for the most part its better than nothing.

If you are already using multiple user names please stop now and even I wont know who is who but the next time you log on with a different name I will get a PM telling me what your old name and new name are.

You will then be asked why by me or one of the mods. If the reason is a good one it is a good one. If not than we will out you plain and simple. This is really bothering me now and we wont put up with it any longer.

People here deserve to be treated with respect and these little games have to stop NOW!

Saying it was just for fun or I didnt know is not a good answer

catm · 07-02-2008, 02:25 PM

thanks Penny cause I think I may have been duped by someone playing games - but not sure. If I can prove it I'll let you know - but you'll probably catch them before I can.

Appreciate the hard work you do!

sweet · 07-02-2008, 02:26 PM

Amen to that Penny!
Thank you for always looking out for us.
Hopefully this will weed out those people who are only here to cause trouble.

Kissie · 07-02-2008, 02:30 PM

Penny thanks for all the looking out for us that you do.,....if you need any help I am here standing behind you!!!!!!

Penny · 07-02-2008, 02:31 PM

People that dont want to be found out by their spouses should not use the same user name that their partner would be able to find here by google. Everyone should Google their user name and see what pops up. If anyone wants a new user name we will be glad to change it for them

gdgrl · 07-02-2008, 02:33 PM

Grow up people. Don't play games. It is too bad it has to come to this.

private beaches · 07-02-2008, 03:01 PM

Thanks Penny!

cherokeered · 07-02-2008, 06:40 PM

Still an issue huh??....you are being very nice about it and have shown a lot of patience....I woulda sent them a pm with one warning...next infraction gets ya outted.....and more after that...gets some of ur privileges revoked or banned....

RedVixen · 07-02-2008, 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by cherokeered

Still an issue huh??....you are being very nice about it and have shown a lot of patience....I woulda sent them a pm with one warning...next infraction gets ya outted.....and more after that...gets some of ur privileges revoked or banned....

I agree with Cher and I might add: This nonsense of double memberships has to stop

redcat · 07-02-2008, 06:52 PM

Thank you, Penny.

Kissie · 07-02-2008, 07:03 PM

I so hate people that play head games...like things arent hard enough in certain peoples life...but to be played like that is just way wrong!!!!!

Atrebla Rose · 07-02-2008, 07:03 PM

Thank you Penny, I sure hope you catch them,,,,to many tears and broken hearts can happen with others stupidity!!!

Tiglet · 07-02-2008, 07:41 PM

Thanks for being our protector while the rest of us have fun. It is much appreciated and not acknowledged enough.

softrosepetal · 07-02-2008, 07:46 PM

Thank you Penny! Your thoughtfulness is appreciated.

fever · 07-02-2008, 08:44 PM

Thank you, Penny...really hope this puts an end to it!

Krystal · 07-02-2008, 08:50 PM

Thanks Penny...you're the best!

Penny · 07-02-2008, 09:20 PM

no pm's tonight

Sweetdreams069 · 07-02-2008, 09:32 PM

One more reason why you can't trust anyone online. You never know who you are talking to really. I feel bad for people who get taken advantage of.

Real_Good · 07-03-2008, 03:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Penny

no pm's tonight

Count on my assistance.

Zarret · 07-03-2008, 05:01 AM

Thank you Penny. It's too bad it has to be this way

sweetnspicy · 07-03-2008, 05:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kissie

I so hate people that play head games...like things arent hard enough in certain peoples life...but to be played like that is just way wrong!!!!!

Totally agree Kissie, ty

Barkiss · 07-03-2008, 09:36 AM

Bumping to ensure it is read by everyone.

Penny · 07-03-2008, 12:34 PM

Yes rebumping, I got one this morning but its not even a regular. He will be contacted

Real_Good · 07-03-2008, 05:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Penny

Yes rebumping, I got one this morning but its not even a regular. He will be contacted

Penny, give him one message, a short time to comply, and if he does not, BOOT his ass out. No good reason for that.

sweetnspicy · 07-03-2008, 05:51 PM

Thankyou Penny

07-02-2008, 02:21 PM	#1
Penny Proprietor Join Date: May 2005 Location: USA Posts: 12,815 Thanks: 682 Thanked 1,597 Times in 655 Posts Blog Entries: 2	Married And Flirting Duplicate Memberships Has To Stop I've had software installed that will alert me when someone that is a member here signs on with a new user name. This is being done to help protect our members from being hurt by people pretending they are someone they are not. If your computer savvy I'm sure you can get around it but for the most part its better than nothing. If you are already using multiple user names please stop now and even I wont know who is who but the next time you log on with a different name I will get a PM telling me what your old name and new name are. You will then be asked why by me or one of the mods. If the reason is a good one it is a good one. If not than we will out you plain and simple. This is really bothering me now and we wont put up with it any longer. People here deserve to be treated with respect and these little games have to stop NOW! Saying it was just for fun or I didnt know is not a good answer __________________ Click Here To Find A Date For Tonight

07-02-2008, 02:26 PM	#3
sweet ♥ Join Date: Feb 2006 Age: 38 Posts: 13,060 Thanks: 5,083 Thanked 2,619 Times in 1,652 Posts	Amen to that Penny! Thank you for always looking out for us. Hopefully this will weed out those people who are only here to cause trouble. Last edited by sweet; 07-02-2008 at 02:29 PM.

07-02-2008, 02:30 PM	#4
Kissie Flirting Goddess Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Ala-Bammy!!! Age: 54 Posts: 14,815 Thanks: 851 Thanked 2,393 Times in 1,614 Posts Blog Entries: 44	Penny thanks for all the looking out for us that you do.,....if you need any help I am here standing behind you!!!!!! __________________ Looking to touch...and be touched....

07-02-2008, 02:31 PM	#5
Penny Proprietor Join Date: May 2005 Location: USA Posts: 12,815 Thanks: 682 Thanked 1,597 Times in 655 Posts Blog Entries: 2	People that dont want to be found out by their spouses should not use the same user name that their partner would be able to find here by google. Everyone should Google their user name and see what pops up. If anyone wants a new user name we will be glad to change it for them __________________ Click Here To Find A Date For Tonight

07-02-2008, 02:33 PM	#6
gdgrl Follow me Join Date: May 2008 Location: Cali Age: 49 Posts: 17,548 Thanks: 8,133 Thanked 8,917 Times in 5,184 Posts Blog Entries: 14	Grow up people. Don't play games. It is too bad it has to come to this. __________________ Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain - and most fools do. - Dale Carnegie

07-02-2008, 02:25 PM	#2
catm Flirting Guest Flirting Is My Life :) Join Date: Jun 2008 Age: 58 Posts: 1,060 Thanks: 225 Thanked 202 Times in 144 Posts Blog Entries: 31	thanks Penny cause I think I may have been duped by someone playing games - but not sure. If I can prove it I'll let you know - but you'll probably catch them before I can. Appreciate the hard work you do!

07-02-2008, 03:01 PM	#7
private beaches Live, Laugh, and Love Join Date: Jan 2008 Age: 52 Posts: 5,321 Thanks: 848 Thanked 628 Times in 537 Posts Blog Entries: 4	Thanks Penny!

07-02-2008, 06:40 PM	#8
cherokeered this space for rent I Love It Here Join Date: Apr 2006 Age: 55 Posts: 28,024 Thanks: 259 Thanked 801 Times in 605 Posts	Still an issue huh??....you are being very nice about it and have shown a lot of patience....I woulda sent them a pm with one warning...next infraction gets ya outted.....and more after that...gets some of ur privileges revoked or banned....

07-02-2008, 06:52 PM	#10
redcat Forum Leader Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Currently NC Age: 61 Posts: 34,133 Thanks: 19,087 Thanked 13,103 Times in 8,333 Posts Blog Entries: 32	Thank you, Penny. __________________

07-02-2008, 07:03 PM	#11
Kissie Flirting Goddess Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Ala-Bammy!!! Age: 54 Posts: 14,815 Thanks: 851 Thanked 2,393 Times in 1,614 Posts Blog Entries: 44	I so hate people that play head games...like things arent hard enough in certain peoples life...but to be played like that is just way wrong!!!!! __________________ Looking to touch...and be touched....

07-02-2008, 07:03 PM	#12
Atrebla Rose Loving where life has me! Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Canada Age: 53 Posts: 12,603 Thanks: 1,625 Thanked 1,587 Times in 1,271 Posts	Thank you Penny, I sure hope you catch them,,,,to many tears and broken hearts can happen with others stupidity!!! __________________ Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the number of moments that take our breath away!!!

07-02-2008, 07:41 PM	#13
Tiglet Missed Y'all Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: In my future always Age: 57 Posts: 7,965 Thanks: 2,086 Thanked 2,135 Times in 1,444 Posts Blog Entries: 4	Thanks for being our protector while the rest of us have fun. It is much appreciated and not acknowledged enough. __________________ Fighting for peace is like screwing for virginity. -George Carlin

07-02-2008, 07:46 PM	#14
softrosepetal Flirting God Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Alabama Age: 52 Posts: 1,695 Thanks: 357 Thanked 212 Times in 177 Posts	Thank you Penny! Your thoughtfulness is appreciated.

07-02-2008, 08:44 PM	#15
fever At the edge of the abyss Join Date: Mar 2008 Age: 51 Posts: 12,907 Thanks: 1,569 Thanked 2,741 Times in 1,836 Posts	Thank you, Penny...really hope this puts an end to it! __________________

07-02-2008, 08:50 PM	#16
Krystal Flirting Goddess Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: NYC/LI Age: 44 Posts: 5,333 Thanks: 1,530 Thanked 1,085 Times in 780 Posts	Thanks Penny...you're the best!

07-02-2008, 09:20 PM	#17
Penny Proprietor Join Date: May 2005 Location: USA Posts: 12,815 Thanks: 682 Thanked 1,597 Times in 655 Posts Blog Entries: 2	no pm's tonight __________________ Click Here To Find A Date For Tonight

07-02-2008, 09:32 PM	#18
Sweetdreams069 Flirting God Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Eastern PA Age: 55 Posts: 1,944 Thanks: 33 Thanked 88 Times in 68 Posts	One more reason why you can't trust anyone online. You never know who you are talking to really. I feel bad for people who get taken advantage of.

07-03-2008, 05:01 AM	#20
Zarret Sometimes Shy Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: New Hampshire (F) Age: 61 Posts: 1,575 Thanks: 107 Thanked 68 Times in 61 Posts Blog Entries: 1	Thank you Penny. It's too bad it has to be this way

07-03-2008, 09:36 AM	#22
Barkiss Primadogga Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: North Carolina Age: 48 Posts: 15,211 Thanks: 1,635 Thanked 3,065 Times in 1,711 Posts Blog Entries: 4	Bumping to ensure it is read by everyone. __________________ I'm glad I'm not judgmental like all you smug, superficial idiots

07-03-2008, 12:34 PM	#23
Penny Proprietor Join Date: May 2005 Location: USA Posts: 12,815 Thanks: 682 Thanked 1,597 Times in 655 Posts Blog Entries: 2	Yes rebumping, I got one this morning but its not even a regular. He will be contacted __________________ Click Here To Find A Date For Tonight

07-03-2008, 05:51 PM	#25
sweetnspicy flirting goddess Join Date: Jun 2008 Age: 47 Posts: 2,247 Thanks: 192 Thanked 207 Times in 192 Posts Blog Entries: 1	Thankyou Penny