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Old 07-18-2005, 10:14 PM   #1
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Question If you could do it over again would you marry the same person?

I would, after 24 years we still have fun together and still love eachother
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Old 07-18-2005, 10:42 PM   #2
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The good times far outwiegh the bad. Yes, I would likely do it again! 25 years, 4 boys, 2 daughters - in - law, 1 Grandchild, and another on the way. All these things I would have missed without this woman I married!
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Old 07-19-2005, 01:03 AM   #3
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The only thing good that came out of my marriage is my two boys...
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Old 07-19-2005, 03:45 AM   #4
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separated after 25 years wont go back now fresh fields to trawl
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Old 07-19-2005, 05:40 AM   #5
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Uh,..... I DON"T THINK SO!

I had to come back and ad this...
Not only no, but HELL NO!

I still love her, but if I knew then what I know now...no fucking way!

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Old 07-19-2005, 09:07 AM   #6
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I really would. If anything, I've come to realize that problems in a marriage are often the result of the dynamic that occurs between two people. I don't view all of the problems that we've had as my wife's fault. She had an affair about six years ago and while I was hurt and angry, once I got past the damage to my ego, I was able to look at myself and the role I played in creating the conditions that made the affair an attractive option. We've been married for 13 years and our marriage - in every department - is better than ever. If my wife and I divorced, I don't think I'd ever re-marry, though. Once is enough.
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Old 07-19-2005, 12:06 PM   #7
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No I dont think I would.
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Old 07-19-2005, 12:40 PM   #8
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Did you know the person she had the affair with
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Old 07-19-2005, 01:53 PM   #9
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I would not have married her if I had known the way it would turn out, I will never understand how someone could change the way she did, and then with her drinking and getting high all the time that just killed it for me, which is why I divorced her. I am seeing a girl now who seems to be very sweet, no booze no drugs great sex but I do not know if I will ever get married again, because of the way the first time came out.
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Old 07-19-2005, 02:16 PM   #10
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I would get married again... My first husband was a dick... Cheated on me because I was too fat for him... Lazy bastard... The only thing good I got from him was my daughter and a kickass chicken recipe... I am engaged right now (althought i call him my hubby) to a wonderful man that loves my fat ass as big as it is... (it still grosses me out but hey he likes it)... Now I have 2 boys from him plus my daughter and we've been going strong for 6 years now... I love you Homie!!!
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Did you know the person she had the affair with
I only knew him as an acquaintance, who travelled in the same circle as we did with our friends.
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Old 07-19-2005, 02:33 PM   #12
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I only knew him as an acquaintance, who travelled in the same circle as we did with our friends.
I posted the message above, I don't understand how I ended up being logged out...
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Old 07-19-2005, 02:41 PM   #13
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if i could do it all over again i would. i am not saying that i would do everything the same but i would have to be with my lady all over and all over my lady
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Old 07-19-2005, 06:42 PM   #14
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I would marry mine again been married 15 years maybe change a few things but we love each other.
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Old 07-19-2005, 10:34 PM   #15
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would i merry the same person over again the answer to that lies somewere between the chances of no way and no how lol who says im not bitter im not really im with a wonderful lady now well were sort of dating if thats possable over here shes a nurse im a combat grunt lol a match made in the milatery
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Old 07-20-2005, 01:40 PM   #16
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I wouldnt have my kids if I didn't but I would hate to have to deal with him again
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Old 07-21-2005, 01:36 AM   #17
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Sure i would had or up and downs but that's all of us. I do some things differnt but that's hind sight. So just look ahead maybe i'll get head
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Old 07-21-2005, 02:44 PM   #18
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So far so good so I will say yes
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Old 07-22-2005, 09:59 AM   #19
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yes i would marry her over and over again
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Old 07-22-2005, 11:15 AM   #20
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Yeah. Wouldn't have these 30 years of memories and most of 'em are good. Fortunately, my boys look like their mom. Who knows? If I'd have picked someone else, my kids might have turned out looking like me. Lady P's been a good wife - most of the time (she reads these posts once in awhile), a good mother, and well... how many other guys in their 50's have a wife that still looks better than most 20 year olds and wants sex every day (AND doesn't mind me 'flirting' with other women). Now that I think about it, Hell YEAH I'd marry her again!
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Old 07-22-2005, 08:13 PM   #21
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Yeah. Wouldn't have these 30 years of memories and most of 'em are good. Fortunately, my boys look like their mom. Who knows? If I'd have picked someone else, my kids might have turned out looking like me. Lady P's been a good wife - most of the time (she reads these posts once in awhile), a good mother, and well... how many other guys in their 50's have a wife that still looks better than most 20 year olds and wants sex every day (AND doesn't mind me 'flirting' with other women). Now that I think about it, Hell YEAH I'd marry her again!

You're a lucky, lucky man! I'm jealous ZP...enveous is probably a better word.

Now, ya got me curious as to what Mrs. P looks like? "Looks better than most 20 year olds"!
Does she still want me to make her toes wiggle? If she does....I'M IN!WOW!

Actually ZP I'm happy for you...by what I've read on here from you...you're one helluva guy! You deserve a woman like Mrs. P!
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Old 07-22-2005, 08:20 PM   #22
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sure would but maybe sooner
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Old 07-22-2005, 11:48 PM   #23
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No Question about it, it been 21 years, and i hope for a whole lot more
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Old 07-23-2005, 11:05 AM   #24
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It's almost a year to the day since my wife walked out on me and the children. And in the that year I have learned a lot about her deviousness and dishonesty throughout the 10 years we were married, a lot of which came from people who were supposed to be her friends. A could get on my soapbox now and lambast her for all she's done but that isn't why we are here, is it? So the answer to the question is that there are not enough words in my vocabulary meaning "No" that match the way I feel about her. Hope that made sense. Regards to all, Jasper
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not really sure ......
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