Sex with the same gender

Kinkawon · 11-03-2009, 12:57 AM

Have you done it?
Would you consider it?
How about as part of a threesome or similar encounter?

Musing64 · 11-03-2009, 09:51 AM

I'd rather do a knothole in a tree than another dude...

Under the radar · 11-03-2009, 09:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kinkawon

Have you done it?
Would you consider it?
How about as part of a threesome or similar encounter?

NO
NO
I highly doubt it.

Down to Zero · 11-03-2009, 10:21 AM

I assume this was intended for the Females in the crowd cause I doubt any dude would be willing to admit to this if they had ....

Suffice it to say it's a resounding no for me all across the board.

sebastien · 11-03-2009, 10:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Down to Zero

I assume this was intended for the Females in the crowd cause I doubt any dude would be willing to admit to this if they had ....

Suffice it to say it's a resounding no for me all across the board.

precisely , and add a resounding no for me too.

CrazyMountainLady · 11-03-2009, 10:31 AM

NO
NO ..well maybe for my 70th birthday...lol
NO

42andtempted · 11-03-2009, 10:44 AM

No....

MuchachitaSpice · 11-03-2009, 10:47 AM

NO I have not done it
I am extremely curious
It would have to be a solo act..

3pmac · 11-03-2009, 10:48 AM

Yes--- above the waist stuff, kissing, tits

It was part of a 4some--2guys, 2girls

glamrockfan · 11-03-2009, 10:49 AM

nope never
never want to

Brink · 11-03-2009, 11:33 AM

Well, no, but it’s always interesting to note how vehemently this topic gets treated on the forum! You’re generally looking at a string of abrupt denials...until the topic dies without any real discussion! Well, apart from the odd female disclosure, but that’s handled a bit differently, right

I have to say, I’m just not used to seeing people who still appear uncomfortable around the subject. Don’t get me wrong, I understand how the ‘intervention of culture, society and backgrounds’ affects all our beliefs. I have some experience of research in that area. I'd never want to deny anyone their personal opinion...

But here’s something to make us think -

One of my closest friends happens to be gay - he had a civil partner until recently. I told him about the site when I first started, knowing he wouldn't be interested, but his response was snappy: “Why on earth do you want to piss all over your marriage?”

My point being that we do something here that not everyone else is so open-minded about or eager to admit! Indeed, you go to practically any other forum and you'll see others strongly denying that they'd ever cheat on their spouse!!

I shall tell you the same thing that I told him - It’s a question of accepting that there are different ways of living and what really matters is that you hurt nobody in the process!

Okay, piece said, carry on…

Down to Zero · 11-03-2009, 12:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Brink

Well, no, but it’s always interesting to note how vehemently this topic gets treated on the forum! You’re generally looking at a string of abrupt denials...until the topic dies without any real discussion! Well, apart from the odd female disclosure, but that’s handled a bit differently, right

I have to say, I’m just not used to seeing people who still appear uncomfortable around the subject. Don’t get me wrong, I understand how the ‘intervention of culture, society and backgrounds’ affects all our beliefs. I have some experience of research in that area. I'd never want to deny anyone their personal opinion...

But here’s something to make us think -

One of my closest friends happens to be gay - he had a civil partner until recently. I told him about the site when I first started, knowing he wouldn't be interested, but his response was snappy: “Why on earth do you want to piss all over your marriage?”

My point being that we do something here that not everyone else is so open-minded about or eager to admit! Indeed, you go to practically any other forum and you'll see others strongly denying that they'd ever cheat on their spouse!!

I shall tell you the same thing that I told him - It’s a question of accepting that there are different ways of living and what really matters is that you hurt nobody in the process!

Okay, piece said, carry on…

I would have to respectfully disagree here ...

It has nothing to do with people being uncomfortable with the subject. It just a question that was indirectly meant to be asked toward females under the pretenses of being a forum wide.

Using logic here we can deduce that there is not a forum with a large homosexual demographic due to it's nature. Most males would never admit to the fact that they had a homosexual encounter if they consider themselves straight. That is simply not in our nature....

On the flip side same sex encounters for females are much more common due to their emotional nature and sense of bonding. Not saying that all girls like girls but its much more common place period among the female straight community to have had some form of encounter same sex encounter due to those factors.

Plus it's much more acceptable in this forum in the sense that guys would think 2 girls are hot .. the same can't be said about women and 2 dudes ..lol

Barkiss · 11-03-2009, 12:23 PM

Me thinks he protesteth too much....

With that said, I think you would be surprised what other men are willing and interested in doing. We actually have a thread somewhere in our past, that was well-discussed, about male and male sexual relations, specifically for those men in a 'straight' relationship.

Personally...I'll never fuck another man now that that bastard Shawn treated me the way he did. Women just flat out treat you better. Not like a roadside piece of meat...the biatch!

Tempest · 11-03-2009, 12:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kinkawon

Have you done it?
Would you consider it?
How about as part of a threesome or similar encounter?

have done some making out, nothing more
have considered doing more (just since joining this place - there's some hot women here that have opened me up, so to speak lol)

I think it would depend on the woman and the situation as to whether it would be one-on-one or with a guy

FLPhil70 · 11-03-2009, 12:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kinkawon

Have you done it?
Would you consider it?
How about as part of a threesome or similar encounter?

NO
NO
and
NO

Down to Zero · 11-03-2009, 12:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Barkiss

Me thinks he protesteth too much....

With that said, I think you would be surprised what other men are willing and interested in doing. We actually have a thread somewhere in our past, that was well-discussed, about male and male sexual relations, specifically for those men in a 'straight' relationship.

Personally...I'll never fuck another man now that that bastard Shawn treated me the way he did. Women just flat out treat you better. Not like a roadside piece of meat...the biatch!

I don't disagree with that fact of it ... I was just stating that most men would not admit to it that is all.

As far as Shawn using you ... i don't know first hand but it seems to be his style for the boys...

jmsmith12345 · 11-03-2009, 12:59 PM

Since the word "gender" refers to the psychological/societal aspects of being male or female, you may already have had sex with someone of the same gender.

Sneaky · 11-03-2009, 01:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Down to Zero

I don't disagree with that fact of it ... I was just stating that most men would not admit to it that is all.

As far as Shawn using you ... i don't know first hand but it seems to be his style for the boys...

I agree...but one of the questions was "Would you consider it?"

I agree with Brink too. We are so open here with so many parts of sexuality but when this topic is discussed most of the men are quick to say "No way in hell!". I don't know..I think sexuality can be a somewhat fluid thing that can change. I've never been with another woman but there have been select times that I have found myself attracted to one. I think I'm way straight but there are moments that I think I'd be open to it. I can't imagine men NOT having the same moments..there's just a stigma attatched to them voicing it.

shanehard23 · 11-03-2009, 01:58 PM

I have no problem saying that I am a bisexual. I have done oral with another male and had the same returned, also, I find that i get the attraction that i dont have towards my wife with him cause he has a hard semi muscular body. Oh and if you don't like it, just grow up and deal with it...lol

redcat · 11-03-2009, 02:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sneaky

I agree...but one of the questions was "Would you consider it?"

I agree with Brink too. We are so open here with so many parts of sexuality but when this topic is discussed most of the men are quick to say "No way in hell!". I don't know..I think sexuality can be a somewhat fluid thing that can change. I've never been with another woman but there have been select times that I have found myself attracted to one. I think I'm way straight but there are moments that I think I'd be open to it. I can't imagine men NOT having the same moments..there's just a stigma attatched to them voicing it.

I agree, Sneaky. I think more men have had the thought cross their mind than would admit.

I still find it rather odd, in this day and age, that there is a stigma attached to a guy admitting he might be curious about, say, oral sex with another guy. (Besides, generally speaking, a guy would have a better idea of how to please..lol.) But let two women express the same curiosity and the men are lined up, wanting front row seats.

I wonder if there are women who think it would be hot to see guys together...

As for me, I've never had an experience with another woman. I"m not overly curious, but when I'm highly aroused it can be a fun fantasy. As part of a threesome? No thanks...I want two men.

Shawn_N_Sandiego · 11-03-2009, 03:12 PM

Ok ... yeah Cali boy gets to talk ... I have come across my share of fellas whom dig the beef, I also know of a good number of ladies that frequent a gay club just to go out and dance with out the worry of being gang raped on the dance floor, and they make friends and often drag them back to the club I work at. I find myself pretty accepting of them ... figuring what ever floats their boat really does not rock mine.

Ok ... true story, I once went back to an apartment with a couple buddies and some girls... drinks were had, everyone was really loose and someone said lets watch porn ... the guy tossed in a DVD and it was girl on girl ... we all protested.... he proclaimed he only watched girl on girl because he did not wanna see someone else's penis as he did his thing. That struck me and everyone else rather odd.... I understand where he was coming from, but it really opened up a intense discussion about male sexuality and our phobias(and was a COMPLETE mood killer). Basically we arrived its ok to see another guys sch-long as long as its smaller ... yeah .. was quite a topic for weeks.

As far as have I , would I ... No, not my bag baby... I find the "accessories" on the ladies to be far to tempting

Rex · 11-03-2009, 03:56 PM

I'll wait until after I have the operation.

PunkyBob · 11-03-2009, 04:02 PM

Used to cross the street quite often. Always been a sex addict and it was just there. Nowadays (and for a long time) it's been straight hetero. No qualms. No disgust.

Moving on, y'all...

highvoltage1951 · 11-03-2009, 04:06 PM

Not a matter of condemning or condoning someone else's lifestyle. Missing the point.
Just answering the question.
No
No
No

meow meow · 11-03-2009, 04:10 PM

I have never had sex with the same gender. Would i consider it? I honestly dont know.

11-03-2009, 12:57 AM	#1
Kinkawon So you think I'm sexy Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Illinois Age: 41 Posts: 128 My Mood: Thanks: 7 Thanked 5 Times in 5 Posts	Sex with the same gender Have you done it? Would you consider it? How about as part of a threesome or similar encounter? __________________ Sticks and stones may break my bones, but whips and chains excite me.

11-03-2009, 10:21 AM	#4
Down to Zero lost to the mighty DaisyD Join Date: Jul 2009 Age: 32 Posts: 758 My Mood: Thanks: 85 Thanked 139 Times in 106 Posts	I assume this was intended for the Females in the crowd cause I doubt any dude would be willing to admit to this if they had .... Suffice it to say it's a resounding no for me all across the board. __________________ Love is neither an emotion nor a feeling, but a willful act by which you share your heart unselfishly.

11-03-2009, 10:31 AM	#6
CrazyMountainLady Ozark Mountain Hillbilly Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: boondocks of the usa Age: 55 Posts: 729 My Mood: Thanks: 76 Thanked 88 Times in 77 Posts	NO NO ..well maybe for my 70th birthday...lol NO __________________ Life's an adventure.. take the back roads...you never know what you may see! go Colts!

11-03-2009, 10:47 AM	#8
MuchachitaSpice "Free Agent" Join Date: May 2009 Location: somewhere in the US... heart is in PR though... Age: 34 Posts: 3,580 My Mood: Thanks: 92 Thanked 298 Times in 266 Posts	NO I have not done it I am extremely curious It would have to be a solo act.. __________________ Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same. ~Francesca Reigler

11-03-2009, 10:48 AM	#9
3pmac Too much time on my hands Join Date: Jul 2009 Age: 41 Posts: 1,161 My Mood: Thanks: 172 Thanked 213 Times in 178 Posts	Yes--- above the waist stuff, kissing, tits It was part of a 4some--2guys, 2girls __________________ I live in my own little World, But its OK,They know ME here Life begins at the end of your comfort zone

11-03-2009, 09:51 AM	#2
Musing64 Flirting God Join Date: Oct 2009 Age: 45 Posts: 935 My Mood: Thanks: 7 Thanked 57 Times in 54 Posts	I'd rather do a knothole in a tree than another dude...

11-03-2009, 10:44 AM	#7
42andtempted Married And Flirting Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Midwest Age: 43 Posts: 122 Thanks: 2 Thanked 7 Times in 5 Posts	No....

11-03-2009, 10:49 AM	#10
glamrockfan love meet new people Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Planet Earth Age: 29 Posts: 2,063 My Mood: Thanks: 74 Thanked 108 Times in 103 Posts	nope never never want to

11-03-2009, 11:33 AM	#11
Brink "Man of few words" Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: U.K. Age: 39 Posts: 1,670 My Mood: Thanks: 708 Thanked 748 Times in 455 Posts	Well, no, but it’s always interesting to note how vehemently this topic gets treated on the forum! You’re generally looking at a string of abrupt denials...until the topic dies without any real discussion! Well, apart from the odd female disclosure, but that’s handled a bit differently, right I have to say, I’m just not used to seeing people who still appear uncomfortable around the subject. Don’t get me wrong, I understand how the ‘intervention of culture, society and backgrounds’ affects all our beliefs. I have some experience of research in that area. I'd never want to deny anyone their personal opinion... But here’s something to make us think - One of my closest friends happens to be gay - he had a civil partner until recently. I told him about the site when I first started, knowing he wouldn't be interested, but his response was snappy: “Why on earth do you want to piss all over your marriage?” My point being that we do something here that not everyone else is so open-minded about or eager to admit! Indeed, you go to practically any other forum and you'll see others strongly denying that they'd ever cheat on their spouse!! I shall tell you the same thing that I told him - It’s a question of accepting that there are different ways of living and what really matters is that you hurt nobody in the process! Okay, piece said, carry on…

11-03-2009, 12:23 PM	#13
Barkiss Primadogga Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: North Carolina Age: 40 Posts: 12,411 My Mood: Thanks: 680 Thanked 1,535 Times in 750 Posts Blog Entries: 1	Me thinks he protesteth too much.... With that said, I think you would be surprised what other men are willing and interested in doing. We actually have a thread somewhere in our past, that was well-discussed, about male and male sexual relations, specifically for those men in a 'straight' relationship. Personally...I'll never fuck another man now that that bastard Shawn treated me the way he did. Women just flat out treat you better. Not like a roadside piece of meat...the biatch!

11-03-2009, 12:59 PM	#17
jmsmith12345 vaginas are weird Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: right behind you Age: 39 Posts: 10,859 My Mood: Thanks: 1,539 Thanked 3,495 Times in 2,119 Posts	Since the word "gender" refers to the psychological/societal aspects of being male or female, you may already have had sex with someone of the same gender. __________________ "It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not." ~ Andre Gide

11-03-2009, 01:58 PM	#19
shanehard23 Married And Flirting Join Date: Oct 2009 Age: 24 Posts: 15 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	I have no problem saying that I am a bisexual. I have done oral with another male and had the same returned, also, I find that i get the attraction that i dont have towards my wife with him cause he has a hard semi muscular body. Oh and if you don't like it, just grow up and deal with it...lol

11-03-2009, 03:12 PM	#21
Shawn_N_Sandiego Forum Surfer Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Greatest place on earth Age: 38 Posts: 10,507 My Mood: Thanks: 2,927 Thanked 4,410 Times in 2,346 Posts Blog Entries: 30	Ok ... yeah Cali boy gets to talk ... I have come across my share of fellas whom dig the beef, I also know of a good number of ladies that frequent a gay club just to go out and dance with out the worry of being gang raped on the dance floor, and they make friends and often drag them back to the club I work at. I find myself pretty accepting of them ... figuring what ever floats their boat really does not rock mine. Ok ... true story, I once went back to an apartment with a couple buddies and some girls... drinks were had, everyone was really loose and someone said lets watch porn ... the guy tossed in a DVD and it was girl on girl ... we all protested.... he proclaimed he only watched girl on girl because he did not wanna see someone else's penis as he did his thing. That struck me and everyone else rather odd.... I understand where he was coming from, but it really opened up a intense discussion about male sexuality and our phobias(and was a COMPLETE mood killer). Basically we arrived its ok to see another guys sch-long as long as its smaller ... yeah .. was quite a topic for weeks. As far as have I , would I ... No, not my bag baby... I find the "accessories" on the ladies to be far to tempting __________________ I'm actually pretty neutral about a lot of things....I'm like Switzerland with a penis.

11-03-2009, 03:56 PM	#22
Rex A Light in the Black Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: In my own Skin Age: 43 Posts: 1,989 My Mood: Thanks: 83 Thanked 277 Times in 207 Posts	I'll wait until after I have the operation. __________________ *Adult Language,Adult Content, Psychological Nudity. Reader Discretion is Advised.* If you don't like what I have to say...don't read it..

11-03-2009, 04:02 PM	#23
PunkyBob Flirting God Join Date: May 2007 Location: US northeast Age: 49 Posts: 5,720 My Mood: Thanks: 185 Thanked 356 Times in 217 Posts	Used to cross the street quite often. Always been a sex addict and it was just there. Nowadays (and for a long time) it's been straight hetero. No qualms. No disgust. Moving on, y'all... __________________ 71% Bitch. 100% Punk. Always Working to Improve.

11-03-2009, 04:06 PM	#24
highvoltage1951 Super Flirt Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Rochester, NY Age: 58 Posts: 220 Thanks: 23 Thanked 20 Times in 20 Posts	Not a matter of condemning or condoning someone else's lifestyle. Missing the point. Just answering the question. No No No

11-03-2009, 04:10 PM	#25
meow meow Married And Flirting Join Date: Oct 2009 Age: 43 Posts: 120 Thanks: 0 Thanked 19 Times in 12 Posts	I have never had sex with the same gender. Would i consider it? I honestly dont know.