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Old 11-17-2009, 04:42 PM   #1
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Old 11-17-2009, 04:49 PM   #2
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Old 11-17-2009, 04:49 PM   #3
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not usually no,from my experience someone always wants more,those damn emotions
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Old 11-17-2009, 05:10 PM   #4
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I'm not sure; but I'd love to find a friend with benefits and test it out.
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Old 11-17-2009, 05:12 PM   #5
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love the idea, but likely someone always gets to emotional and ruins the entire thing.

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Old 11-17-2009, 05:13 PM   #6
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Does freindship with benifits work.
its nice but I would like a nice insurance coverage plan and retirment package..............
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Old 11-17-2009, 05:17 PM   #7
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I'm wondering if that comes with a retirement package as well as insurance......?
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Old 11-17-2009, 05:21 PM   #8
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Most people are afraid to say it could work because, well what would people SAY about them...

But I say, yes, if this place is for fun and release, the FWBs can work....
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Old 11-17-2009, 05:31 PM   #9
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one person generally gets emotionally involved...unless you are in a situation where you are sure that will not happen...don't go there
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FWB's absolutely can work.
I had at least 3 of them in the past, and ended up marrying one of them.
( she finally couldn't help herself)
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Old 11-17-2009, 06:05 PM   #11
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I have a female freind who flirts whenever we see each other. How can you tell if if it just flirtation or something more?
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Old 11-17-2009, 06:13 PM   #12
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the idea sounds great in theory , is it practical i doubt, for some it wont be enough, then someone gets hurt , and that would more than likely be me.
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Old 11-17-2009, 06:24 PM   #13
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I have a close friend that I've known since High School and we have helped each other out when needed. He is my best friend and that is all either one of us want. The best thing is my husband thinks he is gay so he incourages me to hang out with him. God, it he only knew. Hehehehe
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That is just wrong and so wicked cool at the same time...LOL!
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In theory I totally think it can work.
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Let's try...wink.
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In theory, yes, it can work. Be sure everyone's on the page. That you are friends first who enjoy sex with each other...you're not going to change your current status for them, etc.

Then, eventually emotions are likely to become involved on either side. (see Online Affair vs. Real Life Affair thread)

Again, it boils down to...is it worth it to you to risk?
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In theory, yes, it can work. Be sure everyone's on the page. That you are friends first who enjoy sex with each other...you're not going to change your current status for them, etc.

Then, eventually emotions are likely to become involved on either side. (see Online Affair vs. Real Life Affair thread)

Again, it boils down to...is it worth it to you to risk?

well, where does that leave us red???
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well, where does that leave us red???

Right here, babe!! What did you have in mind?
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Right here, babe!! What did you have in mind?

hmmm u realllllly want to know
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Sure it can, as long as everyone involved agrees to all the rules.
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hmmm u realllllly want to know

Would I ask, if I didn't?
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I don't think so!!!!
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be very aware of what the potential pitfalls could be...no one expects emotional involvment in this situations, but someone always get involved...and gets hurt. tread with care
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