Friend with benefits

LovableMale · 11-17-2009, 04:42 PM

Does freindship with benifits work.

Cy · 11-17-2009, 04:49 PM

ravishingrickrude · 11-17-2009, 04:49 PM

not usually no,from my experience someone always wants more,those damn emotions

Binturong · 11-17-2009, 05:10 PM

I'm not sure; but I'd love to find a friend with benefits and test it out.

bogart460 · 11-17-2009, 05:12 PM

love the idea, but likely someone always gets to emotional and ruins the entire thing.

f..buddies

neil48 · 11-17-2009, 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by LovableMale

Does freindship with benifits work.

its nice but I would like a nice insurance coverage plan and retirment package..............

c*t* · 11-17-2009, 05:17 PM

I'm wondering if that comes with a retirement package as well as insurance......?

musing64 · 11-17-2009, 05:21 PM

Most people are afraid to say it could work because, well what would people SAY about them...

But I say, yes, if this place is for fun and release, the FWBs can work....

november · 11-17-2009, 05:31 PM

one person generally gets emotionally involved...unless you are in a situation where you are sure that will not happen...don't go there

Rex · 11-17-2009, 05:35 PM

FWB's absolutely can work.
I had at least 3 of them in the past, and ended up marrying one of them.
( she finally couldn't help herself)

LovableMale · 11-17-2009, 06:05 PM

I have a female freind who flirts whenever we see each other. How can you tell if if it just flirtation or something more?

sebastien · 11-17-2009, 06:13 PM

the idea sounds great in theory , is it practical i doubt, for some it wont be enough, then someone gets hurt , and that would more than likely be me.

virgochick · 11-17-2009, 06:24 PM

I have a close friend that I've known since High School and we have helped each other out when needed. He is my best friend and that is all either one of us want. The best thing is my husband thinks he is gay so he incourages me to hang out with him. God, it he only knew. Hehehehe

musing64 · 11-17-2009, 06:27 PM

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Originally Posted by virgochick

I have a close friend that I've known since High School and we have helped each other out when needed. He is my best friend and that is all either one of us want. The best thing is my husband thinks he is gay so he incourages me to hang out with him. God, it he only knew. Hehehehe

That is just wrong and so wicked cool at the same time...LOL!

3pmac · 11-17-2009, 06:28 PM

In theory I totally think it can work.

musing64 · 11-17-2009, 06:41 PM

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Originally Posted by 3pmac

In theory I totally think it can work.

Let's try...wink.

Sneaky · 11-17-2009, 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by cyclops

LOL. I want to use this as my sig.

redcat · 11-17-2009, 07:20 PM

In theory, yes, it can work. Be sure everyone's on the page. That you are friends first who enjoy sex with each other...you're not going to change your current status for them, etc.

Then, eventually emotions are likely to become involved on either side. (see Online Affair vs. Real Life Affair thread)

Again, it boils down to...is it worth it to you to risk?

dcowboy09 · 11-17-2009, 07:35 PM

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Originally Posted by redcat

In theory, yes, it can work. Be sure everyone's on the page. That you are friends first who enjoy sex with each other...you're not going to change your current status for them, etc.

Then, eventually emotions are likely to become involved on either side. (see Online Affair vs. Real Life Affair thread)

Again, it boils down to...is it worth it to you to risk?

well, where does that leave us red???

redcat · 11-17-2009, 07:45 PM

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Originally Posted by dcowboy09

well, where does that leave us red???

Right here, babe!! What did you have in mind?

dcowboy09 · 11-17-2009, 07:46 PM

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Originally Posted by redcat

Right here, babe!! What did you have in mind?

hmmm u realllllly want to know

meenasmusings · 11-17-2009, 07:54 PM

Sure it can, as long as everyone involved agrees to all the rules.

redcat · 11-18-2009, 12:39 AM

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Originally Posted by dcowboy09

hmmm u realllllly want to know

Would I ask, if I didn't?

happygirl101 · 11-18-2009, 12:41 AM

I don't think so!!!!

november · 11-18-2009, 01:51 AM

be very aware of what the potential pitfalls could be...no one expects emotional involvment in this situations, but someone always get involved...and gets hurt. tread with care

11-17-2009, 04:42 PM	#1
LovableMale Married And Flirting Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: up your skirt Age: 48 Posts: 58 Thanks: 17 Thanked 10 Times in 6 Posts	Friend with benefits Does freindship with benifits work. __________________

11-17-2009, 04:49 PM	#2
Cy Saving on hair products Join Date: Sep 2007 Age: 40 Posts: 7,908 Thanks: 1,465 Thanked 2,751 Times in 1,674 Posts Blog Entries: 16	__________________

11-17-2009, 05:21 PM	#8
musing64 Do you REALLY wanna know? Join Date: Oct 2009 Age: 46 Posts: 3,263 My Mood: Thanks: 11 Thanked 369 Times in 274 Posts	Most people are afraid to say it could work because, well what would people SAY about them... But I say, yes, if this place is for fun and release, the FWBs can work.... __________________ Don't give me this "looks don't matter" garbage...

11-17-2009, 05:31 PM	#9
november Hippie Chick Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: florida Age: 57 Posts: 2,427 My Mood: Thanks: 347 Thanked 371 Times in 295 Posts	one person generally gets emotionally involved...unless you are in a situation where you are sure that will not happen...don't go there __________________ Total abstinence is so excellent a thing that it cannot be carried to too great an extent. In my passion for it I even carry it so far as to totally abstain from total abstinence itself. Mark Twain

11-17-2009, 05:35 PM	#10
Rex Support the economy Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: In my own Skin Age: 44 Posts: 3,849 My Mood: Thanks: 219 Thanked 727 Times in 542 Posts Blog Entries: 1	FWB's absolutely can work. I had at least 3 of them in the past, and ended up marrying one of them. ( she finally couldn't help herself) __________________ If Tyranny is going to come to your door, it's going to come in a uniform.

11-17-2009, 04:49 PM	#3
ravishingrickrude Flirting God Join Date: Jul 2009 Age: 39 Posts: 947 My Mood: Thanks: 17 Thanked 26 Times in 25 Posts	not usually no,from my experience someone always wants more,those damn emotions

11-17-2009, 05:10 PM	#4
Binturong Gnu Guy Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Ohio Age: 46 Posts: 180 Thanks: 6 Thanked 8 Times in 8 Posts	I'm not sure; but I'd love to find a friend with benefits and test it out.

11-17-2009, 05:12 PM	#5
bogart460 Married And Flirting Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: above you Age: 45 Posts: 5 Thanks: 20 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	love the idea, but likely someone always gets to emotional and ruins the entire thing. f..buddies

11-17-2009, 05:17 PM	#7
ct ~moving forward~ Join Date: Sep 2008 Age: 43 Posts: 3,825 Thanks: 435 Thanked 810 Times in 647 Posts	I'm wondering if that comes with a retirement package as well as insurance......?

11-17-2009, 06:05 PM	#11
LovableMale Married And Flirting Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: up your skirt Age: 48 Posts: 58 Thanks: 17 Thanked 10 Times in 6 Posts	I have a female freind who flirts whenever we see each other. How can you tell if if it just flirtation or something more? __________________

11-17-2009, 06:13 PM	#12
sebastien Flirting God Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: in my own little world. Age: 51 Posts: 727 My Mood: Thanks: 100 Thanked 58 Times in 47 Posts	the idea sounds great in theory , is it practical i doubt, for some it wont be enough, then someone gets hurt , and that would more than likely be me.

11-17-2009, 06:24 PM	#13
virgochick Sin's everything Join Date: May 2009 Location: on a beach somewhere wrapped tightly in his arms Age: 35 Posts: 2,616 My Mood: Thanks: 227 Thanked 316 Times in 272 Posts	I have a close friend that I've known since High School and we have helped each other out when needed. He is my best friend and that is all either one of us want. The best thing is my husband thinks he is gay so he incourages me to hang out with him. God, it he only knew. Hehehehe __________________

11-17-2009, 06:28 PM	#15
3pmac ~~Outside of the box~~ Join Date: Jul 2009 Age: 42 Posts: 4,103 My Mood: Thanks: 946 Thanked 883 Times in 715 Posts	In theory I totally think it can work. __________________ ~~~~~Today's lesson.. you're=you are, your=showing possession... Tomorrow we work on their, there and they're.~~~~~

11-17-2009, 07:20 PM	#18
redcat Honey, I'm home!! Join Date: Sep 2007 Age: 54 Posts: 16,061 Thanks: 3,291 Thanked 3,020 Times in 2,152 Posts Blog Entries: 11	In theory, yes, it can work. Be sure everyone's on the page. That you are friends first who enjoy sex with each other...you're not going to change your current status for them, etc. Then, eventually emotions are likely to become involved on either side. (see Online Affair vs. Real Life Affair thread) Again, it boils down to...is it worth it to you to risk?

11-17-2009, 07:54 PM	#22
meenasmusings Married And Flirting Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tn Age: 42 Posts: 35 Thanks: 5 Thanked 9 Times in 7 Posts	Sure it can, as long as everyone involved agrees to all the rules.

11-18-2009, 12:41 AM	#24
happygirl101 ♥Always Happy♥ Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Thinking a nap with him would be perfect right now! ♥ Age: 44 Posts: 16,919 My Mood: Thanks: 4,505 Thanked 4,529 Times in 3,260 Posts	I don't think so!!!! __________________ *Days Like These Make Life Worth While...*

11-18-2009, 01:51 AM	#25
november Hippie Chick Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: florida Age: 57 Posts: 2,427 My Mood: Thanks: 347 Thanked 371 Times in 295 Posts	be very aware of what the potential pitfalls could be...no one expects emotional involvment in this situations, but someone always get involved...and gets hurt. tread with care __________________ Total abstinence is so excellent a thing that it cannot be carried to too great an extent. In my passion for it I even carry it so far as to totally abstain from total abstinence itself. Mark Twain