Friend with benefits

LovableMale · 11-17-2009, 05:42 PM

Does freindship with benifits work.

cyclops · 11-17-2009, 05:49 PM

ravishingrickrude · 11-17-2009, 05:49 PM

not usually no,from my experience someone always wants more,those damn emotions

Binturong · 11-17-2009, 06:10 PM

I'm not sure; but I'd love to find a friend with benefits and test it out.

bogart460 · 11-17-2009, 06:12 PM

love the idea, but likely someone always gets to emotional and ruins the entire thing.

f..buddies

neil48 · 11-17-2009, 06:13 PM

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Originally Posted by LovableMale

Does freindship with benifits work.

its nice but I would like a nice insurance coverage plan and retirment package..............

Catman354 · 11-17-2009, 06:17 PM

I'm wondering if that comes with a retirement package as well as insurance......?

Musing64 · 11-17-2009, 06:21 PM

Most people are afraid to say it could work because, well what would people SAY about them...

But I say, yes, if this place is for fun and release, the FWBs can work....

november · 11-17-2009, 06:31 PM

one person generally gets emotionally involved...unless you are in a situation where you are sure that will not happen...don't go there

Rex · 11-17-2009, 06:35 PM

FWB's absolutely can work.
I had at least 3 of them in the past, and ended up marrying one of them.
( she finally couldn't help herself)

LovableMale · 11-17-2009, 07:05 PM

I have a female freind who flirts whenever we see each other. How can you tell if if it just flirtation or something more?

sebastien · 11-17-2009, 07:13 PM

the idea sounds great in theory , is it practical i doubt, for some it wont be enough, then someone gets hurt , and that would more than likely be me.

virgochick · 11-17-2009, 07:24 PM

I have a close friend that I've known since High School and we have helped each other out when needed. He is my best friend and that is all either one of us want. The best thing is my husband thinks he is gay so he incourages me to hang out with him. God, it he only knew. Hehehehe

Musing64 · 11-17-2009, 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by virgochick

I have a close friend that I've known since High School and we have helped each other out when needed. He is my best friend and that is all either one of us want. The best thing is my husband thinks he is gay so he incourages me to hang out with him. God, it he only knew. Hehehehe

That is just wrong and so wicked cool at the same time...LOL!

3pmac · 11-17-2009, 07:28 PM

In theory I totally think it can work.

Musing64 · 11-17-2009, 07:41 PM

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Originally Posted by 3pmac

In theory I totally think it can work.

Let's try...wink.

Sneaky · 11-17-2009, 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted by cyclops

LOL. I want to use this as my sig.

redcat · 11-17-2009, 08:20 PM

In theory, yes, it can work. Be sure everyone's on the page. That you are friends first who enjoy sex with each other...you're not going to change your current status for them, etc.

Then, eventually emotions are likely to become involved on either side. (see Online Affair vs. Real Life Affair thread)

Again, it boils down to...is it worth it to you to risk?

dcowboy09 · 11-17-2009, 08:35 PM

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Originally Posted by redcat

In theory, yes, it can work. Be sure everyone's on the page. That you are friends first who enjoy sex with each other...you're not going to change your current status for them, etc.

Then, eventually emotions are likely to become involved on either side. (see Online Affair vs. Real Life Affair thread)

Again, it boils down to...is it worth it to you to risk?

well, where does that leave us red???

redcat · 11-17-2009, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by dcowboy09

well, where does that leave us red???

Right here, babe!! What did you have in mind?

dcowboy09 · 11-17-2009, 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by redcat

Right here, babe!! What did you have in mind?

hmmm u realllllly want to know

meenasmusings · 11-17-2009, 08:54 PM

Sure it can, as long as everyone involved agrees to all the rules.

redcat · 11-18-2009, 01:39 AM

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Originally Posted by dcowboy09

hmmm u realllllly want to know

Would I ask, if I didn't?

happygirl101 · 11-18-2009, 01:41 AM

I don't think so!!!!

november · 11-18-2009, 02:51 AM

be very aware of what the potential pitfalls could be...no one expects emotional involvment in this situations, but someone always get involved...and gets hurt. tread with care

11-17-2009, 05:42 PM	#1
LovableMale Married And Flirting Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: up your skirt Age: 48 Posts: 58 Thanks: 17 Thanked 10 Times in 6 Posts	Friend with benefits Does freindship with benifits work. __________________

11-17-2009, 05:49 PM	#2
cyclops Bouncebackability Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Engerrrrrrr-land Age: 40 Posts: 6,478 Thanks: 966 Thanked 1,854 Times in 1,172 Posts Blog Entries: 16	__________________

11-17-2009, 06:17 PM	#7
Catman354 Tempest's Toy Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: The Dirty South Age: 42 Posts: 2,377 My Mood: Thanks: 320 Thanked 557 Times in 449 Posts	I'm wondering if that comes with a retirement package as well as insurance......? __________________ Carpe' Diem

11-17-2009, 06:31 PM	#9
november Hippie Chick Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: florida Age: 57 Posts: 2,226 My Mood: Thanks: 329 Thanked 340 Times in 265 Posts	one person generally gets emotionally involved...unless you are in a situation where you are sure that will not happen...don't go there __________________ Total abstinence is so excellent a thing that it cannot be carried to too great an extent. In my passion for it I even carry it so far as to totally abstain from total abstinence itself. Mark Twain

11-17-2009, 06:35 PM	#10
Rex Agent of Free Humanity Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: In my own Skin Age: 44 Posts: 2,701 My Mood: Thanks: 131 Thanked 443 Times in 327 Posts	FWB's absolutely can work. I had at least 3 of them in the past, and ended up marrying one of them. ( she finally couldn't help herself) __________________ If you don't think it can happen again, you haven't studied history.

11-17-2009, 05:49 PM	#3
ravishingrickrude Flirting God Join Date: Jul 2009 Age: 38 Posts: 770 My Mood: Thanks: 17 Thanked 22 Times in 21 Posts	not usually no,from my experience someone always wants more,those damn emotions

11-17-2009, 06:10 PM	#4
Binturong Gnu Guy Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Ohio Age: 46 Posts: 180 Thanks: 6 Thanked 8 Times in 8 Posts	I'm not sure; but I'd love to find a friend with benefits and test it out.

11-17-2009, 06:12 PM	#5
bogart460 Married And Flirting Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: above you Age: 45 Posts: 5 Thanks: 20 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	love the idea, but likely someone always gets to emotional and ruins the entire thing. f..buddies

11-17-2009, 06:21 PM	#8
Musing64 Flirting Guest Join Date: Oct 2009 Age: 45 Posts: 1,140 My Mood: Thanks: 7 Thanked 78 Times in 72 Posts	Most people are afraid to say it could work because, well what would people SAY about them... But I say, yes, if this place is for fun and release, the FWBs can work....

11-17-2009, 07:05 PM	#11
LovableMale Married And Flirting Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: up your skirt Age: 48 Posts: 58 Thanks: 17 Thanked 10 Times in 6 Posts	I have a female freind who flirts whenever we see each other. How can you tell if if it just flirtation or something more? __________________

11-17-2009, 07:13 PM	#12
sebastien D.H's Fiance. Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: in my own little world. Age: 51 Posts: 608 My Mood: Thanks: 88 Thanked 53 Times in 42 Posts	the idea sounds great in theory , is it practical i doubt, for some it wont be enough, then someone gets hurt , and that would more than likely be me.

11-17-2009, 07:24 PM	#13
virgochick Super Flirt Join Date: May 2009 Location: in your wildest dreams Age: 35 Posts: 355 Thanks: 69 Thanked 47 Times in 40 Posts	I have a close friend that I've known since High School and we have helped each other out when needed. He is my best friend and that is all either one of us want. The best thing is my husband thinks he is gay so he incourages me to hang out with him. God, it he only knew. Hehehehe

11-17-2009, 07:28 PM	#15
3pmac ~~~~Sassy~~~~ Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: ʇǝʞsɐqpuɐɥ ɐ uı Age: 41 Posts: 1,897 My Mood: Thanks: 342 Thanked 372 Times in 301 Posts	In theory I totally think it can work. __________________ *~~~Be the kind of woman that when your feet the ground each morning, the Devil says "OH CRAP, SHE'S UP"~~~*

11-17-2009, 08:20 PM	#18
redcat Forum Leader Join Date: Sep 2007 Age: 53 Posts: 12,910 Thanks: 2,089 Thanked 2,178 Times in 1,540 Posts Blog Entries: 9	In theory, yes, it can work. Be sure everyone's on the page. That you are friends first who enjoy sex with each other...you're not going to change your current status for them, etc. Then, eventually emotions are likely to become involved on either side. (see Online Affair vs. Real Life Affair thread) Again, it boils down to...is it worth it to you to risk? __________________ Nothing makes a woman more beautiful than the belief she is beautiful ~ Sophia Loren

11-17-2009, 08:54 PM	#22
meenasmusings Married And Flirting Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tn Age: 41 Posts: 35 Thanks: 5 Thanked 9 Times in 7 Posts	Sure it can, as long as everyone involved agrees to all the rules.

11-18-2009, 01:41 AM	#24
happygirl101 Back and Ready To Party! Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: In The Boston Area Posts: 10,100 My Mood: Thanks: 2,599 Thanked 2,479 Times in 1,804 Posts	I don't think so!!!!

11-18-2009, 02:51 AM	#25
november Hippie Chick Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: florida Age: 57 Posts: 2,226 My Mood: Thanks: 329 Thanked 340 Times in 265 Posts	be very aware of what the potential pitfalls could be...no one expects emotional involvment in this situations, but someone always get involved...and gets hurt. tread with care __________________ Total abstinence is so excellent a thing that it cannot be carried to too great an extent. In my passion for it I even carry it so far as to totally abstain from total abstinence itself. Mark Twain