Would you help a male or female friend hook up?

bostonbizbiz · 11-20-2009, 07:24 AM

would you help a friend out? in any way logistics or otherwise to help them "BLOW OFF SOME STEAM"

wing man women play Matchmaker????

learman3 · 11-20-2009, 09:19 AM

Not sure what you mean by blow off steam.

I would never play match maker. I have a hard enough time reading who would be good for me. How could I ever do it for someone else. And then if you led them into a bad relationship, how good would that be.

fever · 11-20-2009, 09:37 AM

If you're asking would I help someone with an affair...probably not. I can't think of a single instance where I'm friends with one partner in a marriage and not the other. No way I'm getting involved in that!

Sneaky · 11-20-2009, 09:40 AM

Yes. If it doesn't blow up in my face & I think they'd get along.

glamrockfan · 11-20-2009, 09:43 AM

nah, i'm a guy, guys shouldn't be playin cupid in my eyes LOL, we mostly screw up anything we touch in a relationship lol

Brak_45 · 11-20-2009, 09:47 AM

Been there done that still have the scars....no way am I going there again.

bluejay24 · 11-20-2009, 10:37 AM

Not sure what I would do!

dcowboy09 · 11-20-2009, 10:44 AM

sure I would, why not if it can make to people happy and they really like each other, I would hope someone would for me as well.

Jaded · 11-20-2009, 10:48 AM

Ive fixed up two of my single friends and it worked out great, Im not sure I would get involved if they were married because then I would know her husband too and that just gets sticky

dcowboy09 · 11-20-2009, 10:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Jaded

Ive fixed up two of my single friends and it worked out great, Im not sure I would get involved if they were married because then I would know her husband too and that just gets sticky

only if it were a 3some or 4some

haha

NYYlvr · 11-20-2009, 10:54 AM

I have in the past, some with good results, some went totally sour. I would entertain the thought as long as I felt the outcome would be beneficial to all involved.

Charmed · 11-20-2009, 11:07 AM

I have been known play matchmaker.

c*t* · 11-20-2009, 12:14 PM

I don't know...that's risky~

vicarious · 11-20-2009, 12:23 PM

Sure, I'll play broker. People's decisions aren't my responsibility. They could choose to not take my offer. I see it like showing someone a porn website. If someone asks me what a good porn website is, I give them the URL. It's their choice whether or not to view it. If they view it and get 'caught', it's not my fault, they asked, I provided info.

Binturong · 11-20-2009, 12:26 PM

Wouldn't do it....I wouldn't sell a friend a used car either!

Willy S · 11-20-2009, 12:37 PM

I'd do it - I have!

cherri · 11-20-2009, 12:37 PM

No, I've never played matchmaker. Have I covered for somebody? Sure, even total strangers. I used to work at a hotel, and have had spouses call up looking for their S.O.-even asking me to go out in the parking lot looking for their vehicle. Would I help a friend, and cover for them? Depends on the friend. If I know their spouse, their kids, or even their situation, I may or may not. It would be a total judgement call at that point, and I would definitely take into consideration how much involvement I am willing to risk myself. You have to figure the risk part in because I, myself, have tendency to stray from a moral path once in a while. And I really don't want to drag anyone down that perpetual tunnel with me, much less get caught helping someone else. God only knows I have enough trouble covering my own ass!

Willy S · 11-20-2009, 12:39 PM

but its such a nice ass - don't cover it

cherri · 11-20-2009, 12:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Willy S

but its such a nice ass - don't cover it

Thank you for the sweet compliment! Does that mean you'll be around to take advantage of such a blatant invitation?

TheLaw · 11-20-2009, 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted by cherri

No, I've never played matchmaker. Have I covered for somebody? Sure, even total strangers. I used to work at a hotel, and have had spouses call up looking for their S.O.-even asking me to go out in the parking lot looking for their vehicle. Would I help a friend, and cover for them? Depends on the friend. If I know their spouse, their kids, or even their situation, I may or may not. It would be a total judgement call at that point, and I would definitely take into consideration how much involvement I am willing to risk myself. You have to figure the risk part in because I, myself, have tendency to stray from a moral path once in a while. And I really don't want to drag anyone down that perpetual tunnel with me, much less get caught helping someone else. God only knows I have enough trouble covering my own ass!

I'd like to reserve a room, for two, but I'll be showing up by myself

bostonbizbiz · 11-21-2009, 06:28 AM

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Originally Posted by cherri

No, I've never played matchmaker. Have I covered for somebody? Sure, even total strangers. I used to work at a hotel, and have had spouses call up looking for their S.O.-even asking me to go out in the parking lot looking for their vehicle. Would I help a friend, and cover for them? Depends on the friend. If I know their spouse, their kids, or even their situation, I may or may not. It would be a total judgement call at that point, and I would definitely take into consideration how much involvement I am willing to risk myself. You have to figure the risk part in because I, myself, have tendency to stray from a moral path once in a while. And I really don't want to drag anyone down that perpetual tunnel with me, much less get caught helping someone else. God only knows I have enough trouble covering my own ass!

hard enough to keep your own life in order I was asked to cover and did but not a real close friend and did not know the family"

bostonbizbiz · 11-21-2009, 06:30 AM

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Originally Posted by vicarious

Sure, I'll play broker. People's decisions aren't my responsibility. They could choose to not take my offer. I see it like showing someone a porn website. If someone asks me what a good porn website is, I give them the URL. It's their choice whether or not to view it. If they view it and get 'caught', it's not my fault, they asked, I provided info.

good point

scoobertina · 11-21-2009, 06:35 AM

I have done it and I would again...

MadameWhispers · 11-21-2009, 07:13 PM

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Originally Posted by bostonbizbiz

would you help a friend out? in any way logistics or otherwise to help them "BLOW OFF SOME STEAM"

wing man women play Matchmaker????

sure why not..... wingman, matchmaker,......it's all good.

if a friend of mine likes another friend of mine...I introduce them..the rest is up to them......

cherri · 11-23-2009, 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by TheLaw

I'd like to reserve a room, for two, but I'll be showing up by myself

Is that a private party? Or shall I ask if you need any help coordinating the events?

11-20-2009, 07:24 AM	#1
bostonbizbiz Very Cute and Smart and.. Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Boston Metro Age: 45 Posts: 528 My Mood: Thanks: 26 Thanked 25 Times in 23 Posts	Would you help a male or female friend hook up? would you help a friend out? in any way logistics or otherwise to help them "BLOW OFF SOME STEAM" wing man women play Matchmaker????

11-20-2009, 09:37 AM	#3
fever Donator Join Date: Mar 2008 Age: 44 Posts: 12,097 Thanks: 1,327 Thanked 2,352 Times in 1,614 Posts	If you're asking would I help someone with an affair...probably not. I can't think of a single instance where I'm friends with one partner in a marriage and not the other. No way I'm getting involved in that! __________________

11-20-2009, 09:40 AM	#4
Sneaky Pissy Prissy Princess Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Eating peanut butter right out of the jar with a spoon. mmmmMmmmm. What? It's good. Age: 39 Posts: 20,285 My Mood: Thanks: 7,567 Thanked 6,815 Times in 4,198 Posts Blog Entries: 11	Yes. If it doesn't blow up in my face & I think they'd get along. __________________ "I'd want (you) in my fox hole when in combat" ~M & F Member

11-20-2009, 09:43 AM	#5
glamrockfan Flirting God Join Date: Sep 2009 Age: 30 Posts: 3,012 Thanks: 111 Thanked 191 Times in 178 Posts	nah, i'm a guy, guys shouldn't be playin cupid in my eyes LOL, we mostly screw up anything we touch in a relationship lol __________________ [

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Brak_45 KIlty Pleasures Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: KC mo Age: 57 Posts: 3,212 My Mood: Thanks: 1,238 Thanked 441 Times in 396 Posts Blog Entries: 3	Been there done that still have the scars....no way am I going there again. __________________ firecracker??? more like a slow fizzle

11-20-2009, 09:19 AM	#2
learman3 Flirting God Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: No where in particular Posts: 5,872 My Mood: Thanks: 374 Thanked 850 Times in 675 Posts	Not sure what you mean by blow off steam. I would never play match maker. I have a hard enough time reading who would be good for me. How could I ever do it for someone else. And then if you led them into a bad relationship, how good would that be.

11-20-2009, 10:37 AM	#7
bluejay24 Flirting God Join Date: Sep 2008 Age: 40 Posts: 1,113 My Mood: Thanks: 35 Thanked 127 Times in 116 Posts	Not sure what I would do!

11-20-2009, 10:44 AM	#8
dcowboy09 DC Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Texas Age: 43 Posts: 6,245 My Mood: Thanks: 200 Thanked 506 Times in 418 Posts	sure I would, why not if it can make to people happy and they really like each other, I would hope someone would for me as well. __________________ Life is measured not so much by accomplishments as by how many times you pick your self up after people have knocked you down and proceeded to kick their ass

11-20-2009, 10:48 AM	#9
Jaded Flirting God Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 1,100 Thanks: 166 Thanked 162 Times in 134 Posts	Ive fixed up two of my single friends and it worked out great, Im not sure I would get involved if they were married because then I would know her husband too and that just gets sticky

11-20-2009, 10:54 AM	#11
NYYlvr First Due Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: her in my arms Age: 43 Posts: 2,578 My Mood: Thanks: 309 Thanked 434 Times in 340 Posts	I have in the past, some with good results, some went totally sour. I would entertain the thought as long as I felt the outcome would be beneficial to all involved.

11-20-2009, 11:07 AM	#12
Charmed Daddy's Girl Join Date: May 2008 Age: 47 Posts: 23,023 My Mood: Thanks: 3,876 Thanked 3,685 Times in 2,804 Posts	I have been known play matchmaker. __________________ "Once in his life, every man is entitled to fall madly in love with a gorgeous redhead." Lucille Ball

11-20-2009, 12:14 PM	#13
ct ~moving forward~ Join Date: Sep 2008 Age: 43 Posts: 3,825 Thanks: 435 Thanked 810 Times in 647 Posts	I don't know...that's risky~

11-20-2009, 12:23 PM	#14
vicarious Finally Free!!!! Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Northwest Age: 39 Posts: 1,472 My Mood: Thanks: 83 Thanked 246 Times in 171 Posts Blog Entries: 8	Sure, I'll play broker. People's decisions aren't my responsibility. They could choose to not take my offer. I see it like showing someone a porn website. If someone asks me what a good porn website is, I give them the URL. It's their choice whether or not to view it. If they view it and get 'caught', it's not my fault, they asked, I provided info. __________________ A decision is just words until action is made

11-20-2009, 12:26 PM	#15
Binturong Gnu Guy Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Ohio Age: 46 Posts: 180 Thanks: 6 Thanked 8 Times in 8 Posts	Wouldn't do it....I wouldn't sell a friend a used car either!

11-20-2009, 12:37 PM	#16
Willy S No Hero Join Date: Oct 2005 Age: 55 Posts: 5,814 My Mood: Thanks: 68 Thanked 99 Times in 93 Posts	I'd do it - I have!

11-20-2009, 12:37 PM	#17
cherri Openly Defiant Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Indiana Age: 37 Posts: 879 My Mood: Thanks: 93 Thanked 321 Times in 209 Posts	No, I've never played matchmaker. Have I covered for somebody? Sure, even total strangers. I used to work at a hotel, and have had spouses call up looking for their S.O.-even asking me to go out in the parking lot looking for their vehicle. Would I help a friend, and cover for them? Depends on the friend. If I know their spouse, their kids, or even their situation, I may or may not. It would be a total judgement call at that point, and I would definitely take into consideration how much involvement I am willing to risk myself. You have to figure the risk part in because I, myself, have tendency to stray from a moral path once in a while. And I really don't want to drag anyone down that perpetual tunnel with me, much less get caught helping someone else. God only knows I have enough trouble covering my own ass! __________________ With the right man, the right attitude, and the right attire... I can catapult us both into a tantalizing realm of untapped sexual pleasure!

11-20-2009, 12:39 PM	#18
Willy S No Hero Join Date: Oct 2005 Age: 55 Posts: 5,814 My Mood: Thanks: 68 Thanked 99 Times in 93 Posts	but its such a nice ass - don't cover it

11-21-2009, 06:35 AM	#23
scoobertina ~in my head~ Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: here, there, everywhere Age: 45 Posts: 39,739 My Mood: Thanks: 8,185 Thanked 6,438 Times in 4,584 Posts Blog Entries: 54	I have done it and I would again... __________________ A question that sometimes drives me hazy: am I or are the others crazy? - Albert Einstein