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Old 04-05-2010, 06:48 PM   #1
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No Strings Attached Affair vs Friends with Benifits which is more preferable if you were looking for someone to satisfy your needs ..
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Old 04-05-2010, 07:14 PM   #2
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Old 04-05-2010, 07:33 PM   #3
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NSA for minimal contact. FWB is a friend that I talk to on occasion and what not. NSA is only talk when you want to play.
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Old 04-05-2010, 07:33 PM   #4
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I'm not sure I know what the difference is?
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Old 04-05-2010, 07:35 PM   #5
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Ohhh. There are strings if you want my benefits. Sorry.
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Old 04-05-2010, 07:35 PM   #6
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I think that is what the discussion is?
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Old 04-05-2010, 07:37 PM   #7
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I wouldn't have a problem with a FWB....but I think an NSA would make me feel like a whore....I'm not THAT desperate for sex.....LOL
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Old 04-05-2010, 07:41 PM   #8
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NSA = you know their chat handle
FWB = you know their actual name????

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Old 04-05-2010, 07:42 PM   #9
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Old 04-05-2010, 07:47 PM   #10
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I don't think NSA is possible if you have a heart....considering what you are doing feelings are created at some point before during or after!
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Old 04-05-2010, 07:48 PM   #11
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Sounds good to me and I might add:
NSA = Know there chat handle/phone # when desperate
FWB = Have lunch with and bitch about your day and then go back to her place and play.
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Old 04-05-2010, 07:51 PM   #12
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BTW, I don't want an NSA. Agree with Joy above.
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Old 04-05-2010, 08:20 PM   #13
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Guys I think are better at NSA usually
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Old 04-05-2010, 08:20 PM   #14
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Damn forgot the other....ONS....One night stand
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NSA is very much like a free puppy ... no such thing
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Old 04-05-2010, 10:03 PM   #16
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agreed, someone always wants something more.
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Old 04-05-2010, 10:34 PM   #17
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I love a friend with benefits. And a ONS might be fun also...NSA is never ruled out.
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Old 04-05-2010, 10:42 PM   #18
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NSA always ends up being SWS (so with strings).

FWB always ends up with bigger feelings, which may be ok if you have an appropriate distance between you.

ONS were awesome the last time I called upon those initials. Sadly, so long ago the memory is fuzzy...
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So is it possible to have a FWB with NSA?
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Old 04-05-2010, 10:54 PM   #20
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For me ........it depends on the man......
  • some were built for ONS.......
  • some are NSA.........
  • while others are FWB.........
if the object of the encounter is sex.........ONS & NSA are best.....
get what you want and get out......

if you want a relationship without the marriage, then FWB...
an FWB still wants a type of relationship.....

but if they all fail............there is always my rabbit!!
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They usually start off that way. But closeness is hard to maintain and keep it no strings, I think.
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They usually start off that way. But closeness is hard to maintain and keep it no strings, I think.
That's true - so do the "strings" become attached when one person begins wanting more out of the friendship than the other? I think the ideal FWB would want exactly what you want out of the relationship and nothing more. So in a sense there are NSA as long as you both agree on what you want.
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I vote for LTR (Long Term Relationship)
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