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Old 09-12-2011, 04:37 PM   #1
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We hear these terms all the time and I find myself wondering what the differences are, if any? I realize what they mean, "friend with benefits", "no strings attached". Yet what I want to know is can you have a FWB and a NSA at the same time? To have a friend isn't that going to cause some strings to tangle?

Or is the difference that with one you are friends who have sex on occasion and in the "in between" times you are able to still chat and be pals? With an NSA, you just hit it and leave, no questions, no friendship, nada?

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Old 09-12-2011, 04:39 PM   #2
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I have neither, but I would say there is no real difference.....
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I have neither, but I would say there is no real difference.....
Me either, but if I ever do I want to make sure I know what I've got.
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Old 09-12-2011, 04:40 PM   #4
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I think you nailed it at the end. FWB is an ongoing relationship that you happen to also have a sexual relationship with. A NSA is a fuck and forget...or fuck, fuck again, fuck again, fuck again...but eventually forget.
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Old 09-12-2011, 04:40 PM   #5
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I think the "friends" portion is actually the string .... either way .. as long as I am gettin balls deep throw what ever 3 letter abbreviation on it that you would like.
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I say "friends" awww shiet....
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I think the "friends" portion is actually the string .... either way .. as long as I am gettin balls deep throw what ever 3 letter abbreviation on it that you would like.

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!! That's priceless!
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I think the "friends" portion is actually the string .... either way .. as long as I am gettin balls deep throw what ever 3 letter abbreviation on it that you would like.
Everyone now knows why they call me "BAR"....
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Never in my life have I or anyone I've known been capable of any "ongoing" anything without feelings developing.....it's human nature.....if it's just one time at a bar/party, whatever and you don't exchange #s or anything, it might work but!!!! if you lay down naked with each other for the night and it's good and you have breakfast and you plan dinner next weekend and......you get the picture.....feelings will develop!!!
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Never in my life have I or anyone I've known been capable of any "ongoing" anything without feelings developing.....it's human nature.....if it's just one time at a bar/party, whatever and you don't exchange #s or anything, it might work but!!!! if you lay down naked with each other for the night and it's good and you have breakfast and you plan dinner next weekend and......you get the picture.....feelings will develop!!!
Ain't there a way to turn off that part of the brain?
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Ok, thanks for assisting me with that one. Damn acronyms!!!
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Maybe NSA is really NSA only when you pay for it?
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I think FRIENDS is just attached to the WITH BENEFITS so we psychologically feel better about what we might be doing. "Oh I would not just FUCK anyone, we are...FRIENDS."

I mean c'mon, I hope anyone you fuck you would at LEAST be some sort of friend, that there is some level of trust or else you might as well just go to a club and have a one night stand right?

I've yet to hear "AWB," Acquaintance with Benefits...
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We hear these terms all the time and I find myself wondering what the differences are, if any? I realize what they mean, "friend with benefits", "no strings attached". Yet what I want to know is can you have a FWB and a NSA at the same time? To have a friend isn't that going to cause some strings to tangle?

Or is the difference that with one you are friends who have sex on occasion and in the "in between" times you are able to still chat and be pals? With an NSA, you just hit it and leave, no questions, no friendship, nada?

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Would you like me to show you? We can start with the FWB and then move to the NSA.
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I think FRIENDS is just attached to the WITH BENEFITS so we psychologically feel better about what we might be doing. "Oh I would not just FUCK anyone, we are...FRIENDS."

I mean c'mon, I hope anyone you fuck you would at LEAST be some sort of friend, that there is some level of trust or else you might as well just go to a club and have a one night stand right?

I've yet to hear "AWB," Acquaintance with Benefits...
I had wondered because someone I know said he only does "NSA." And I wondered did that mean ya kick em' to the curb after? This is all new to me.
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Would you like me to show you? We can start with the FWB and then move to the NSA.
Now see, this is the real reason I started this thread. Ding, ding, ding, we have a winner, someone get this dog a bone!
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