That fateful moment....when you discovered you married your mother/father

celtichazel · 08-03-2008, 12:49 AM

i have joked about it, as have my friends, but today....oh lordy was the day that i said it out loud......i married someone who turned into my father!!! it was a fateful trip to costco, the attitude, behavior and mannerisms.....i found myself, alone in the booze aisle, shaking my head realizing that there is not enough in this world to get me through this realization. fortunately for me i love them both to pieces.

Bandit · 08-03-2008, 12:54 AM

Funny but deep topic. Happened to me last year.

Charmed · 08-03-2008, 01:33 AM

Thank God, that hasn't happened to me.

Jules1 · 08-03-2008, 02:31 AM

Hasn't happened to me yet either....I'm pretty sure its happened to my husband though....he discovered that he married his father-in-law....lol.

Icarus · 08-03-2008, 09:47 AM

MarriedQt · 08-03-2008, 02:35 PM

Hasn't happened to me yet but then only been married 2 years......give it time I'm sure it will one day!

celtichazel · 08-03-2008, 02:43 PM

it just sneaks up on ya , out of the blue, trust me, was not a diliberate move!! makes for some funny times!!!

cheffyboy · 08-04-2008, 08:48 AM

thought it was just me. realised it had happened when my mum would ring up to talk to my wife rather than me.

Ally · 08-04-2008, 09:24 AM

There are definitely many similarities....especially the corny jokes.

UltimateNaneki · 08-04-2008, 09:54 AM

I didn't marry my father....I married my child, always cooked for him, cleaned for him, told him what to do, what a bore....had to divorce him.

Shawn · 08-04-2008, 10:26 AM

I recall a few years ago her sister telling her.. "OMG you know you just married Dad"....for some reason the sex has been a bit awkward since.

cheffyboy · 08-04-2008, 10:53 AM

the obsseive tidiness, reluctance to embrace new experience. hmmm. not good

Krystal · 08-04-2008, 12:22 PM

I think I would divorce him if he turned into my father. That's a man I can't live with, LOL. I'm trying really hard to keep him from turning into that man, too.

However....I'm pretty sure that eventually he will learn that he married my mother.

nurse.hottie · 08-04-2008, 12:34 PM

yeah but my dad was honest and my hubby not so much

nurse.hottie · 08-04-2008, 12:35 PM

which yeah it does freak ya out but oh well

cheffyboy · 08-04-2008, 12:46 PM

dont all women eventually turn into their mothers.
in my case hairy legs and all!!

gspotlover · 08-04-2008, 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by celtichazel

i have joked about it, as have my friends, but today....oh lordy was the day that i said it out loud......i married someone who turned into my father!!! it was a fateful trip to costco, the attitude, behavior and mannerisms.....i found myself, alone in the booze aisle, shaking my head realizing that there is not enough in this world to get me through this realization. fortunately for me i love them both to pieces.

Are you from Arkansas? Maybe it really is your mother/father....lol

rj1002 · 08-04-2008, 04:50 PM

Much worse than discovering you married your mother. Looking up one day and realizing you married your mother-in-law!

MrHyde · 08-04-2008, 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Shawn_N_Sandiego

I recall a few years ago her sister telling her.. "OMG you know you just married Dad"....for some reason the sex has been a bit awkward since.

Maybe that's cause it's your wife's sister...LOL

pagirl · 08-04-2008, 04:58 PM

I am in the same boat ... been married for 14 years and my Mom told me to run, run far away because she knew it when I got married that he was JUST like my father... I told her, NO WAY... But over the last 3 years I have noticed that is is EXACTLY like my DAD. We just bought a car and all my Dad keeps saying is, that's just like the one I had... and The Costgo thing, Yep... us too with the Amex credit card to boot... but my Mom and Dad have weathered some tough times and they are still together so I guess it could be worse...

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Originally Posted by celtichazel

i have joked about it, as have my friends, but today....oh lordy was the day that i said it out loud......i married someone who turned into my father!!! it was a fateful trip to costco, the attitude, behavior and mannerisms.....i found myself, alone in the booze aisle, shaking my head realizing that there is not enough in this world to get me through this realization. fortunately for me i love them both to pieces.

08-03-2008, 12:49 AM	#1
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08-03-2008, 12:54 AM	#2
Bandit The Love You Take... Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: with my imaginary friends Age: 50 Posts: 1,472 My Mood: Thanks: 206 Thanked 154 Times in 137 Posts	Funny but deep topic. Happened to me last year. __________________ Give a man a fish and he will eat for a day. Teach him how to fish, and he will sit in a boat and drink beer all day. -- George Carlin 1937 - 2008

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Ally By myself but not alone Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Hopefully in bed Age: 32 Posts: 8,028 My Mood: Thanks: 2,247 Thanked 2,232 Times in 1,554 Posts Blog Entries: 6	There are definitely many similarities....especially the corny jokes. __________________

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celtichazel Super Flirt Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: CA Age: 44 Posts: 274 Thanks: 2 Thanked 35 Times in 28 Posts	it just sneaks up on ya , out of the blue, trust me, was not a diliberate move!! makes for some funny times!!!

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cheffyboy Married And Flirting Join Date: Jul 2008 Age: 38 Posts: 21 Thanks: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post	thought it was just me. realised it had happened when my mum would ring up to talk to my wife rather than me.

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Shawn Forum Surfer Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Greatest place on earth Age: 38 Posts: 14,393 My Mood: Thanks: 3,846 Thanked 6,582 Times in 3,525 Posts Blog Entries: 34	I recall a few years ago her sister telling her.. "OMG you know you just married Dad"....for some reason the sex has been a bit awkward since. __________________

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cheffyboy Married And Flirting Join Date: Jul 2008 Age: 38 Posts: 21 Thanks: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post	the obsseive tidiness, reluctance to embrace new experience. hmmm. not good

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Krystal I'm baaaaaack! Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: NYC Age: 37 Posts: 5,189 My Mood: Thanks: 1,432 Thanked 1,048 Times in 752 Posts	I think I would divorce him if he turned into my father. That's a man I can't live with, LOL. I'm trying really hard to keep him from turning into that man, too. However....I'm pretty sure that eventually he will learn that he married my mother. __________________ Just gonna stand there and watch me burn But that's all right because I like the way it hurts... Just gonna stand there and hear me cry But that's all right because I love the way you lie...

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nurse.hottie Flirting Goddess Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Neb Age: 29 Posts: 280 My Mood: Thanks: 26 Thanked 17 Times in 14 Posts	yeah but my dad was honest and my hubby not so much

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nurse.hottie Flirting Goddess Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Neb Age: 29 Posts: 280 My Mood: Thanks: 26 Thanked 17 Times in 14 Posts	which yeah it does freak ya out but oh well

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cheffyboy Married And Flirting Join Date: Jul 2008 Age: 38 Posts: 21 Thanks: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post	dont all women eventually turn into their mothers. in my case hairy legs and all!!

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rj1002 Flirting God Join Date: May 2008 Location: Los Angeles - San Fernando Valley Age: 57 Posts: 687 Thanks: 81 Thanked 109 Times in 77 Posts	Much worse than discovering you married your mother. Looking up one day and realizing you married your mother-in-law!